Questions Anybody? - and an Answer Please

Apparently March is question and answer month in this corner of blogland so if you have any questions for us please either ask them in the comments section or send us an email.  We would love to hear from you.

Questions welcomed from everyone.  You don't have to be a regular reader.

Ask us anything you like (within reason) and we will answer them in a later post. You can either direct your question to Rick, myself or both of us.  I wouldn't ask Scrappy though as the best answer you're probably likely to get is "it's a mystery!".

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While we're here, I'm wondering if you can help me with a question of my own.  I feel like this is a daft question and I feel silly asking it, but It's something I have been pondering for a little while.

Why is it when it comes to discipline, I have some expectation that my husband has given it a lot of prior thought and has the consequences and fine detail all planned out in advance?  I expect him to have a plan and to stick with it.

The reality is that yes, he does give it a lot of prior thought and decides on consequences beforehand but just allows the rest of the detail to happen. Sometimes I can see the cogs turn, that he is thinking on his feet (as it were) reacting to my responses and it can throw me.

I don't understand why this is.  It's silly really.  I mean, this is how it should be isn't it?  It's human nature.  We communicate, we react and adjust according to the responses we receive.