Happy St Patrick's Day, Erotic Spanking and Questions Answered

Happy St. Patrick's Day Everyone!  Our St Patrick's Day started off with a lovely restaurant brunch with friends in honour of a friend's birthday.  It was very pleasant.  The meal was delicious and service superb.

Things have been trucking along in Rick and Roz land.  I have been having a fair bit of trouble with my no electronics in bed rule lately, and also getting to bed quickly enough when told to do so.  I also don't feel my head is quite where it should be right now - but we are working through it.

Our brunch today capped of a lovely night together Saturday night.  We had a nice dinner then settled in to watch a couple of recorded programmes.  I was in my customary position on the floor between Rick's legs and he began playing with my hair and massaging my head and back.  I was in heaven.

We watched a couple of shows then Rick decided to switch to music.  We continued as we had been for a while then me motioned for me to join him on the couch and snuggle up.  I sat beside him and snuggled into him and in the process somehow managed to position myself half across his lap.  Seriously?  Do you want a spanking?  It's either a very good or very bad idea to place yourself in this position with an HoH!

It wasn't long belong Rick started rather absently rubbing my butt and giving me light slaps to the beat of the music.  It wasn't much longer before I started wriggling and moaning.  Noticing my reaction he started changing the tempo of the slaps up and down, which made me moan more.  He then stood me up and removed my jeans and told me to get back over his lap whereupon he continued his ministrations.  He then sent me to get the wooden spoon.  I went back over his lap, down came the panties and the spoon alternated between being rather tantalising and ouchy.

Later he lowered me back onto the floor for a while and then repositioned me so that I was leaning into the back of the seat of the couch whereupon he started his ministrations again with the spoon, again alternating between tantalising and ouchy.  Then came a different sensation.  Rather thuddy and ouchy as Rick was also using more force than previously.  It didn't take long for me to register that he was using his leather sandal.  Now, previously, I've always thought spanking with a slipper or any kind of shoe rather ... I'm not sure ... silly?  I've changed my mind on that.  I've learnt it can be very effective!

Now onto answering some of the wonderful questions I have received.

Riley asked How did you choose your blog name?

We settled on the name Roz fairly quickly.  It was sort of a given.  Roz is a combination of my given names and a nick name my father always used to call me.

The rest of the title took a little longer to formulate.  We tried to think what words we could use to denote taken in hand and finally came up with "in his hands".

Grace asked How did the two of you meet and what really drew you to each other?

There is a story behind this and it's something Rick never lets me lives down.  He keeps torturing me with it from time to time.

We firstly met through working together.  We were both working for the same organisation but in different areas and didn't know each other.  Rick applied to join our area and being the nosey sort that I am, I tried to glean some information on the candidates from the boss who, to my complete surprise, shared who they were and their work history.  My initial reaction, based solely on Rick's work history, experience etc, was that he would not be a good fit for us.  Given my sometimes forthright, rather Scrappy nature I wasted no time sharing this view with the boss.

Very fortunately my opinion didn't count because Rick was the lucky candidate. However, instead of being offered a permanent role straight off (which is what had been advertised) he was offered a short term contract to begin with.  Whether I had anything to do with that development, we will never know. I very quickly realised how totally wrong I was about Rick's suitability for the job.

We took a while to warm up to each other initially but discovered we shared a lot of common views, ideals etc and it wasn't long before we became friends.  This friendship grew deeper and deeper over time and the rest, as they say, is history.

Back before our friendship blossomed into romance we always used to talk about how people say it's impossible for a man and a woman to just be friends and how we had proven that to be untrue.  Well, maybe that old saying is right after all?

Thank you Riley and Grace for you questions.  I will answer some more questions in another most soon.  It's still March, so please feel free to send further questions if you would like.