Wednesday, 30 January 2013

Switching?

I've managed to make it half way through my first week back at work.  As predicted it was like I had never been away after 5 minutes there.  I was pounced upon as soon as I walked in the door on Monday and there's been no let up since.  No easy wind up for me this time with constant demands and people wanting things like yesterday.

I feel like I already want to crack some heads too!  Yeah, that's it ... I'll get em.  I'll ... Hang on a minute.  Scrappy!  What the heck are you doing here?  I thought I put you outside!  Sorry folks, will you give me a minute and I'll go and put him back outside where he belongs.

Right.  Back again.  I apologise for the rude interruption from my furry friend. I must have accidently let him in.  Oops!  Well, I'm assuming it was me because of course Rick NEVER lets him in.

Anyway, sorry about that.  Now where was I.  Oh that's right - work.

Rick had the opportunity today to hear me engaged in a profession discussion.  He politely stood back, waited for me and pretended not to listen (as one does).

Wow honey.  You sounded so authoritive.  You were in control

Oh really?

Yeah.  It was kind of hot.  Turned me on! grinning like a cheshire cat

NO.  No way! - Wait a minute - hmm could it be?

No. Surely not!

Could it be that switching is in our future?


Hmm.  I kinda like the thought of that!  But I really don't think that is going to happen any time soon.  Besides.  I think we are really much better like this



As a side note, I have been trying to reply to comments on my last two posts and managed to do some then blogger had a fit and just doesn't seem to want to let me do any more.  Argh!  I promise I will get to them as soon as blogger behaves!

Take care everyone :)
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  1. Susie30 January 2013 at 02:56

    I think perhaps Scrappy should keep her paws in her pockets lest she want to give Rick a little swat, just for good measure.

    Done that here...not so smart.

    I'm having blogger problems too...maybe they are working on something. Blast these free services. :)

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:00

      Hi Susie,

      LoL Very sound advice from you as always. Definitely not the smartest move, although, i have been known to get in the odd swat here and there, but only playfully.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  2. PK30 January 2013 at 03:27

    I'm betting he think that side of you is hot when he sees you dominating someone else while he know you are submissive to him. I could be wrong, try coming at him with a paddle and see for sure.

    Hugs,
    PK

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:02

      Hi PK, I think you are right there.

      Dang woman, are you trying to get me into trouble? I thought we were all about helping each other stay out of trouble here LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  3. abby30 January 2013 at 04:06

    I think when a strong woman submits to her man, he finds it incredibly hot. I could be wrong, so see PK.s last sentence.
    hugs abby

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:04

      Hi Abby, what i said to PK! LoL Seriously, I agree, I think there is something to this.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. Anonymous30 January 2013 at 04:21

    When a strong woman submits, I find it incredibly hot. Also, spanking someone with my hand and feeling the warmth of the skin while watching the skin turn pink is incredible. Add the cute sounds and WOW!

    Many of my female friends are really turned on by spanking a guy. A couple of females have told me they had an orgasm while spanking a male.

    If you do decide to switch, please use a leather paddle to spank and rub with your hand. Spanking hurts the hand! Most of my female top friends start with hand spanks and soon are using a leather or wooden paddle.

    Good luck.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 01:15

      Hi Joey, thank you for commenting.

      It's great to get the male input here as we girls have all been speculating that a dominant woman submitting to you is hot for a guy. I agree, implements can be fun, but there is nothing like the hand - skin on skin.

      I don't think being the spanker is really my thing (or his the spankee either). Only ever tried it occasionally in play and you are right, with implements :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  5. willie30 January 2013 at 05:33

    I agree with PK...probably the fact that you dominate others and submit to him. No one wants a wall flower right? Well I suppose someone does...but ya know *wink*

    Now back to Scrappy. He might need to be tied up out back..I mean he does have a collar!

    Love
    Willie

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:15

      Hi Willie, makes perfect sense, and I note Joey's comment too.

      As for Scrappy - hmm you do have a point. Why in the blazers did I not even think of that! Wait a minute - is THAT why Rick wanted the collar!!

      Love
      Roz

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  6. Fondles30 January 2013 at 05:46

    yeah, i tend to agree with the folks in the "you dominate others but submit to me" camp. i sincerely doubt switching is in the cards...

    UNLESS - you want to? hmmmm

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:17

      Hi Fondles, as I said above, I agree too. Makes sense.

      You are right of course, it's not really on the cards .... or is it? Nah, just kidding ya

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. Cat30 January 2013 at 06:58

    Hey Roz - another vote here for the 'turns him on that you dominate others but submit to him'. You could try a fly-by swat with a wooden spoon and see how he responds. Of course, you'd have to be willing to accept the consequences...LOL

    Have fun!
    Cat

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:19

      Hi Cat, Dang, are you trying to get me in trouble too! Hmm, maybe I do need new friends LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. Es May30 January 2013 at 07:27

    Had a good laugh when you said your husband NEVER lets Scrappy in! :) I'm allowed to give my husband a playful swat, but that's it. I once threated to give just one swat with the loopy... I had welts for an hour! lol So I think it's good you don't try either. hehehe

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:21

      Hi Es May, Thank you for NOT trying to get me into trouble! LoL

      I do manage to get in the odd playful swat. Ouch, actually threatening, and to use the loopy! Definitely not a good idea!

      Hugs
      Roz

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  9. Blondie30 January 2013 at 08:29

    Roz, my 13 year old informed this morning that people like the unattainable - the challenge of getting a person "out of their league". I am still wondering why he wanted to share that with me, something about a "friend zone". But I do think that men like a challenge, so why would they not be attracted to a dominant woman and find that they are turned on when she submits? My advice to you, I have found that when taking a swat at my husband, usually ends with me losing. So get his okay first. Unless you want a spanking, I wouldn't be quick at spanking him.

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 01:07

      Hi Blondie, That was an interesting comment from your son. Wish words, out of the mouths of babes eh?

      I agree, I can see that a dominant woman who submits to you would be attractive to a guy.

      As i said to some of the others, I can get in the occasional swat, buy only playfully. I don't think I'd like to see what would happen if I pushed it too far!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  10. Zoe30 January 2013 at 09:21

    Good luck leaving Scappy at the door. He has to admit that Scrappy is just so darn cute.

    I can get in the occasional playful swat here but only one and only in fun. Wouldn't really want to find out what would happen if I took it too far.

    It takes a lot of strength to submit and like others have said that is very attractive for our guys. They also know we wouldn't do this for just anyone which also makes it even more special I think. Good luck with Scrappy!

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 01:02

      Hi Zoe, Thank you :)

      Scrappy is pretty cute :) But, I do have to try to leave him outside. Willie made me laugh, I didn't even think of the collar!

      I too can get in the occasional playful swat, but unlike as SOME of my friends here have suggested, I don't think it would be wise to push it too far LoL

      You are right, it does take strength to submit, and I know that is something Rick understands and appreciates. I can totally see how having to be dominant elsewhere but submit to him is attractive.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  11. Tess30 January 2013 at 10:40

    Just 'cause he's the one doing the spanking, doesn't mean he can't appreciate his woman's strength;)

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:44

      Hi Tess, exactly! I can totally see how it would push his buttons too :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  12. June30 January 2013 at 11:54

    That's just silly, Roz, lol. I agree - much better at the bottom picture, and what Susie said -keep those paws in your pocket, lol.

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:36

      Hi June, I KNEW you would call me silly LoL.

      Somehow I also knew you wouldn't agree LoL. You are right of course, the bottom picture really is much better and as always, such great advice from both you and Susie :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  13. Anonymous30 January 2013 at 14:00

    I have thought about this a lot, and in theory it is wonderful....but few of us get to live the dream like Rogue. I have suggested to Ian a number of time that it might be sporting to let me have a go at him, to help him alter some irritating behaviour and I wouldn't recommend pressing the issue....just saying.
    We have to live precariously through Rogue, I'm afraid.
    hugs
    lillie

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:33

      Hi Lillie, LOL. I think you are right, sigh! Nice fantasy though isn't it?

      I can just image how that would have gone down with Ian *shudder*

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  14. Anonymous30 January 2013 at 17:02

    Roz,
    I do agree with what everyone is saying here about your Hotness Factor and Rick's appreciation of it. :)

    But...when done in the context of the bedroom...I'm just sayin' - it is very hot. Not that I am claiming to have experience in this or anything...

    Love,
    Elisa - The Occasional Bedroom Switch

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:30

      Hi Elisa, oh my goodness, I am blushing here :) I will agree though ... in the context of the bedroom ...

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  15. SNP30 January 2013 at 18:53

    How great your husband got to overhear and then told you that. I don't think switching is in your future, but I enjoyed reading this slice of a day in your life. Hang in there with work-Hugs.

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:28

      Hi SNP, thank you, and thank you for NOT trying to get me in trouble! :)

      You are right. I don't really think it is either. It is a nice fantasy sometimes though :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  16. Rogue30 January 2013 at 19:53

    I read this earlier. Came back and read it again. I'll probably come back and read it again tomorrow... :)

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:24

      Rogue, you are killing us !!!??? LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  17. Minielle Labraun30 January 2013 at 21:28

    I think everyone is right! Seriously you a strong woman trusting her man to lead and spank her. I'm thinking that he feels honored.
    Otherwise try PKs idea. Then run!

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:26

      Hi Minelle, are you another one trying to get me in trouble? Sheesh!

      Everybody does seem to be in agreement on this, and it makes perfect sense. If I was going to try PK's idea I would definitely run - fast! LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  18. kiwigirliegirl30 January 2013 at 22:45

    well done on almost the end of your first week....im hanging out for Friday too :)
    i think we have all had our little fantasies of switching...but i too think we are better as in pic number 2 LOL ;)

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    1. Roz31 January 2013 at 00:23

      Hi Kiwi, thank you. First week almost done thank goodness - and a holiday next week, yay!

      You are right of course. It's nice to have the fantasy though isn't it :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  19. Anonymous31 January 2013 at 04:12

    Hi Roz
    Sorry been poorly just seen this post lol you had me laughing with that pic.
    I do agree with the others, I think he's turned on by his reall strong woman who dominates all these men and is submissive only to him.
    I think it turnes men on to know a woman is and can be strong when needed and still will submit to the man she desires the most.
    You go scrappy, but a word of warning, the last time I spanked, ok swated once my hubs, I got a pretty good spanking for it. Some how he did NOT find it funny at all :(

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    1. Roz4 February 2013 at 23:29

      HI MBC, please don't apologise, never too late and I love hearing from you. I will apologise though for not replying sooner! I hope you are feeling better.

      Yes, it seems a woman who is strong and dominant where she needs to be, but is submissive to you is a real turn on for our guys.

      Are you trying to get me in trouble as well! LoL. Thanks for the warning. I don't think it's really worth taking the risk!

      Hugs
      Roz

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  20. Terpsichore31 January 2013 at 07:05

    Hi Roz,
    Enjoyed reading this post and all the comments. Don't want to get you into trouble, so if you try the paddle idea definitely run. :-)

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    1. Roz4 February 2013 at 23:22

      Hi Terps, LoL, thank you for not trying to get me in trouble :) Don't think it would be worth trying my luck somehow! LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  21. Jacquie31 January 2013 at 08:48

    As it has been said, and I must agree since Dave is in that camp. He has told me I'm his Alpha female in that he's seen me in situations where I lead those around me and get things done. When I asked him once if he was intersted in switching our roles, even just to try it, his response was, "Uh...No." He loves my submission and sees it as a gift. Maybe it is more special to him to know just how strong I can be and yet I lay myself completely vulnerable to him.

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    1. Roz4 February 2013 at 23:21

      Hi Jacquie, I think that is it exactly. to be able to see your woman as dominant yet she submits to you

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  22. Riley1 February 2013 at 19:49

    This post made me giggle! ;) We've tried switching before. In the beginning Cael wanted me to know what it was like. I definitely didn't like it too much, it felt weird. I think he felt the same. But hey, I'll try anything once!

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  23. Roz4 February 2013 at 23:18

    Hi Riley,

    I agree, it just doesn't feel quite right does it. Nice to get the opportunity to give it a go though huh? LoL

    Congrats on your blogiversary and ttwd anniversary!

    Hugs,
    Roz

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