It was a great weekend and we were blessed with lovely spring weather. The weather can be fickle this time of year and it is notorious for strong gale winds which ruins an otherwise nice day. This weekend, even the wind abated. We spent the afternoons taking drives, visiting the odd shop, cafes etc. Just spending time together. It was nice.
Saturday night Rick decided a return to role affirmation was in order. This was the first since reintroducing DD due to circumstances and if you read the previous couple of posts, you know I have been nervous and anxious at the thought of re-starting RA.
I hadn't been spanked for so long I was worried as to how I would handle it. Erotic spanking hadn't occurred much either during our hiatus. I guess were just weren't in the right mind set. Not feeling our Dom/submissive roles.
I hadn't been spanked for so long I was worried as to how I would handle it. Erotic spanking hadn't occurred much either during our hiatus. I guess were just weren't in the right mind set. Not feeling our Dom/submissive roles.
Anyway, I'm not sure Rick intended it to happen this way, but we were joking around together on the couch and next thing I found myself over his lap. I have no idea how that happened ??! He started swatting my bottom alternating the swats with rubbing. It wasn't hard, in fact, I was quite enjoying myself :) After a while he stood me up, pulled my jeans down and took me back over his knee.
Ooh - I like these!
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Very nice! Sexy
The fancy knickers distracted him for a while. He rubbed my bottom while he admired the view. Then the spanks began. The swats weren't hard and I was continuing to rather enjoy myself. It felt like I was home. It just felt right.
God I've missed your bottom .... so fresh, so smooth, pristine
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I like you in pink
You do look good in pink, I especially like your bottom pink. A nice rosy glow. Blog that!
You do look good in pink, I especially like your bottom pink. A nice rosy glow. Blog that!
He only used his hand and went fairly easy on me. In fact it was more of an erotic spanking. No naked kneeling! ... until later that is (more on that later). Although the spanking was more erotic, he continued throughout to tell me I am his, that he wants and expects my submission.
After he finished spanking he gently moved me to kneel in front on him, whereupon he unzipped his jeans and proceeded to keep my mouth busy.
Good girl
Thank you Daddy - he knew what I meant
A gentle reintroduction. Now let's think about some dinner simple as that!
Later ...
Rick obviously decided I had had enough of a gentle reintroduction to spanking
Take everything off except bra and knickers
After some hesitation I complied
On your hands and knees
He then proceeded to reacquaint me with all his favourite implements and preceded each implement with "remember this"? ... Uh, yeah. How could I forget? I can tell you it hurts so much more when you haven't been spanked for a while! At one point he took a break from spanking and asked what the fuss was. "You're out of practice". Sheesh!
Apparently he then decided it would be a good time to also to get me back in practice with the clothes pegs. I'm afraid to say I freaked. Those damn things hurt, especially when they come off! I balked and tried to squirm away. No, no. He wasn't having any of that, he attached the first peg to my nipple and told me to breathe. He gave me time to adjust before producing the second peg. I balked again but on it went.
I guess you could say I have been reacquainted with spanking and role affirmation. This was a good step for us in getting back on track. I'm grateful it was a gentle reintroduction. Well, to start with at least!
Here's to gentle re-entries...and to partners who know what we need! He was smart to follow the 'gentle' one with a second more rigorous one....kept those demons from going to the 'what ifs'. Very happy you are both back on board.
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Thank you Abby, seems we are both blessed with partners who know what we need :) I think you're right too about following up the initial spanking.
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Roz
Wow what a reintroduction :) I knew he would make it special for you guys :) I have to say, I cannot imagine a peg on my nipples, I don't know if I get turned on by the thought, or it actually scares me to death, but idea has always played on my mind, yeah I know confusing lol
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you guys are back on track and I'm very happy for you both :)
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Thank you Missy :) It does feel good to be getting back to where we want to be. I tell you, the first part was yummy :) As for the pegs, I would go with the scared feelings if I were you! LoL They hurt like the dickens!
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Roz
LOL Blog that! Glad that you are both feeling good about getting back into things:)
ReplyDeleteThank you Tess :) It does feel good to be getting back to where we want to be. LoL, I couldn't pass up that challenge from Rick now could I :)
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Roz
I'm glad that your reacquainting went very well :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Yearning :) It did go well (especially the first part :) and I'm glad the apprehension of it is now gone.
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Roz
Wow Roz, when y'all re-introduce you really RE-INTRODUCE! LOL Way to go!
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George
Thank you George :) LoL, I guess you could say that!
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Roz
Roz, Rick is so thoughtful to you - what a lovely reintroduction! I have to say I like pink too. But clothes pegs? They do nothing for me whatsoever, and I suddenly had this really funny thought. I must have cast iron nipples! Help!
ReplyDeleteSo glad you are happy with everything once more!
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Ami
Thank you Ami :) The first part was especially lovely :) OMG, cast iron nipples ... you crack me up! I certainly could have done with those at the time! ... though I doubt Rick would have been very impressed LoL
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Roz
Ahh, Roz so glad the anxiety of the re-introduction is over! Not sure I could see the use of multiple implements as a gentle reintroduction but I'm glad you're past that "first" one.
ReplyDeleteGotta love when they comment on the color of your spanked bumm. Not something I would have EVER expected hearing my husband say. Well, he can still make me blush after all these years! Well, I guess all the cheeks are rosey then, lol.
Thank you so much Clara, I can't tell you how happy I am now that the anxiety of it is gone! The first part at least was gentle LoL.
DeleteLoL, oh yes, they love those comments don't they? .. and surprise us with them. I think it's wonderful you husband still makes you blush :)
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Roz
OK, I'm just going to say how sexy that reintroduction sounded! Clothes pins - no so much! I hate any sort of clamp - I feel like my nipples will burst. Glad to hear it went well and that your nipples did not burst!! :-D
ReplyDeleteThank you Natasha :) Oh it was, especially the first part :) I'm not really a fan of any sort of clamp either, but I try my best to submit to it.
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Roz
When we take a break from spanking I do agree that it takes a bit to get back in the game as it were. It does hurt more somehow. I think the way he did your reintroduction was perfect. First not so hard and then harder. Very nice.
ReplyDeleteOur guys do like their pithy comments and I too have gotten the blog that challenge. Funny.
Thank you Zoe, I agree, I think it takes a lot of work to get back on track after a break, and spanking definitely hurts more! I'm so glad he handled things the way he did. I was so anxious about it.
DeleteThey do love those comments don't they ... and we do too right? :) Oh yes, I just couldn't pass up the blog challenge!
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Roz
Hi. I'm glad that the two of you were able to reconnect. btw: the whole thing sounds hot :)
ReplyDeleteHi Saturn, thank you :) I'm so glad the anxiety over it is now gone and it feels good to be getting back on track. BTW, I notice your blog is now private.
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Roz
I'm so happy for you my friend.
ReplyDeleteHi Tiffany, thank you so much :) It does feel good to be getting back on track.
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Roz
OMG, I couldn't do the clothes pegs ever. The rest I could probably deal with, maybe not as stoic as you though. Glad it went well for the most part.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sunny :) I'm not overly fond of the pegs and do find them 'challenging'.
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Roz
Gosh Roz, what a re-introduction! I am not sure about the clothes pegs, we have pink sparkly clamps, maybe Rick would like those!! I think they are a bit gentler, Glad things are getting back to normal
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Hi Jan, Oh it was .. and I'm so glad the anxiety of it is now over and that we are getting back on track.
DeleteLoL, I'll definitely take the pink sparkly clamps over the pegs if they are gentler! Rick should like them too if they are pink ... he likes me in pink after all LoL
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Roz
This sounds so nice. I'm really happy for you.
ReplyDeleteThank you PK :) I'm glad the anxiety is gone and that things are getting back on track.
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Roz
Wow Roz...what a re-introduction! So happy Rick started out gently but dang...sure didn't end that way! And clothes pegs? NO!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHappy to hear things are getting back to 'normal' for you two.
Hugs and Blessings...
Cat
Thank you Cat :) Things are definitely getting back to normal.
DeleteThe first part was definitely gentle at least .. and rather nice LoL. I'm not really a great fan of the pegs and can find them difficult to cope with at times.
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Roz
Clothes pegs are a no for me too! However I am glad you had some easy loving pink!
ReplyDeleteThank you Minelle :) easy loving pink ... I like that! As I said above, I'm not really overly fond of the pegs and they are certainly a challenge.
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Roz
So glad you had such a wonderful reintroduction :-) Hugs
ReplyDeleteThank you Terps :)
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Roz
Giggles and gentle re-introduction. A good start for something you had been nervous about doing. Glad it turned out so lovely for you both.
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DF
Thank you DF :) It definitely was a good start and I'm so glad Rick handled things the way he did.
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Roz
Good job with your re-introduction and the the both of you had some great fun to
ReplyDeleteThank you Bob :) Yes, we certainly did have some fun :)
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Roz
Gentle eh? Bah, it sounds pretty intense to me.
ReplyDeleteNo matter Roz, it also sounds like it was exactly what you two needed and you sound good. :)
Hi Susie, the first part at least was gentle and I'm so glad Rick handled things the way he did. I was so nervous at the thought of returning to RA having not been spanked for so long. The rest probably sounds more intense than the reality written down.
DeleteIt does feel good to be getting back on track :)
Hugs,
Roz
Roz,
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet! It sounds like things are at a good place and I am so happy for you!
Ah....clothes pegs, eh? You should try the butterfly clamps :P
Whatever kind of clamp it is, they sure do hurt like a mother when they come off...;p
Thank you Bleuame :) It feels good to be getting back on track. Butterfly clamps? Think I'll have to say no thanks LoL. Do they ever hurt when they come off!
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Roz
I'm not sure I'd classify that last bit as gentle, but reading this makes me happy. I'm so glad you are in a good place. You sound so happy and light. It looks good on you.
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TL
Thank you so much TL :) We are good, and it feels good to be getting back on track. The first part at least was gentle, and rather nice LoL.
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Roz
Oh, wow!! He sorta eased you into it and then pushed you all the way in. It's like when it's super hot outside and you're at the pool. You sorta ease in because even though the water isn't cold, it's cool enough to be shocking to your skin. Eventually, your body adjusts and it isn't shocking, it feels refreshing. Sometimes it's best just to jump in and take the shock. Other times, it's best to go slow. He let you do both.
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Glad you're adjusting and that it hasn't been too difficult. :) I agree with TL, you seem lighter, happy and it does look good!
HI Sarah, thank you :) I love your analogy. That's exactly what it was like! He did let me do both and I can't tell you how glad I was that he did!
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Roz