Thursday 21 February 2013

Spankful for Bas


There are not many HoH's who blog and Bas therefore provides us with a 'unique' and refreshing perspective which is very much appreciated by us girls.  Especially during times when we can't understand why our HoH reacted to a certain situation, or didn't react as the case may be, or don't know how best to communicate our needs, thoughts and feelings to our HoH.  Bas is always there to offer sound advice.

I always look forward to reading comments from Bas.  He is always kind, thoughtful and encouraging.  He shares in our joy, our tears and makes us laugh with his extremely witty comments.

At times when we need it the most, he also occasionally dons his HoH hat and tells it how it is, or gives us a swift kick up the backside.  His comments always make me smile, encourage me or make me sit up and take notice.  He has a knack for knowing the right thing to say.

I want to share a few Words of Basdom that I have received.


Well, don't ask us why you are doing it.  Find a mirror and ask again.  Maybe you can tell that stranger in the mirror to behave because being banned from bloging is not going to go over good with your blogging friends.


Simple recipe for driving HoH crazy: Make him worry about your safety.  Success guaranteed.

Hmm, HoH Bas

There are a lot of short women in blogland.  Is that a sign that most HoH's are lazy and look for easy prey?

LoL, maybe there is something to this?

If I had sat there and you had interviewed me, you had gotten exactly the same answers.  Only a few 'born' HoH's know all the answers.  The rest of us is guessing and waiting for the wife's input. When we don't know what to do, and the wife gives no clear signals, we find ourselves for a stop sign.

Wonderful advice!

Anger,  frustration, sadness and distancing all keep happening.  It's those times that make us appreciate the good times more.  I'm sending hugs right through the floor of my study, down through the entire earthglobe and directly to you.

Supportive Bas

Roz, it indeed looks like an epidemic but mostly I see happy endings. Isn't it great that Rick, although mistreated by the Boss and, even worse, taken on a Christmas shopping tour still exactly sees what you need.  Spank that Scrappy!

Hmm

Yes, we are all giant meanies.  Sorry but what can I say?  Someone has to do the job.  Sometimes it is just plain necessary.  Of course, we only spank on Christmas day to defend the Christmas spirit  against possible attacks from Scrappy and colleagues.

The first DD wife to be spanked in 2013!  What an honour that would be.  I understand that this can be an exciting race between you and Kiwi.  Can we place bets on the winner?

A combo.  HoH'y with a little humour

A beautiful ceremony right from the heart.  You must really feel connected.  With a ceremony like that, I can hardly imagine that those issues with submission that you mentioned cannot be solved in no time.

This one brought both tears to my eyes and gave me great encouragement.

I don't think it's possible to ever fully get there.  You are both doing a very good job.  It's all about the road you are travelling together. Enjoy the road.  Roads go ever on.

Very wise words indeed.


Bas, thank you so much for your support, encouragement, your big heart and for giving me a swift kick at times when I need it (I know Rick appreciates those comments! LoL).

We are blessed to have you in this wonderful community and I feel truly honoured to call you a friend.

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Thanks to Ana and Rogue for organising today.  If you would like to join Spankful for Bas day, grab a logo and put up a post of your own then email or comment on Ana's blog to make sure she has the link for the main page.

18 comments:

  1. What an awesome idea. I wondered where it originated. Poor Bas, he's going to have his own set of red cheeks today... though not the same set as we women get! ;)

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    1. Hi Es May, It was such a lovely idea and I'm also thankful to Ana and Rogue for organising this and to Chelsea for making the banners for us. I'm hoping Bas has enjoyed reading these posts and is feeling well loved by us all :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  2. Chelsea is the one who made the lovely banners.

    I love, love, love reading these words of Basdom...so many wonderful gems that I didn't get to see the first time. Love it.

    Happy Spankful for Bas Day!

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    1. Hi Ana, thank you so much for organising the event and apologies to Chelsea. Definitely a lot of words of Basdom! I'm trying to visit a few more of these posts now. It's so much fun reading these.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  3. I am really enjoying this day. This was wonderful Roz.
    hugs
    lillie

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    1. Thanks Lillie, I just love your poem on Ana's blog :)

      I've read some of these posts and trying to read some more now. They are a lot of fun to read.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. He's a very special person. Lovely Roz.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, thank you. He is indeed and I'm glad we have had today to honour him.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  5. Great post Roz...I love visiting everyone and seeing all the 'Basdoms' compiled together. ;)

    Happy Spankful for Bas Day!

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, thank you :) I've only read a few so far and am trying to read a few more. I too am enjoying reading all the "Basdoms".

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  6. It sure is something going back through the posts and reading Bas' comments isn't it. I know how much time this takes. Good work.

    He's a treasure for sure!

    Love willie

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    1. Hi Willie, thank you :) You did such an amazing job on your post. I actually had a lot of fun re-reading and compiling the "Basdoms" and remembering my reaction when I first read them. I think it's also really neat to see most of them compiled in one place.

      Bas is definitely a treasured member of our community.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. Bas denies it, but he's one of the smartest people I know. He really has helped me understand my somewhat vanilla husband.

    Hugs,
    PK

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    1. Hi PK, Bas certainly is a treasured member of our community. He certainly has helped many of us with his sound advice.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. Roz, thank you so much for sharing! I'm loving these posts. :)

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    1. Thank you Rogue, Thank you for your part in organising this. Such a wonderful idea. I've only read a few of these posts so far and am trying to read some more now. They are fun to read, and very touching.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  9. This was great Roz...and fun. He says things in such a unique way and yet they hit the truth button each time.

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    1. Hi Susie, thank you. You are so right, his comments hit the mark every time. I enjoyed reading your post. Very creative, and fun to read.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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