Over the last couple of weeks things have been going on here that have somewhat detracted from our dynamic. Nothing serious, but there have been several small things that have happened one after the other causing stress and frustration. Changes at work causing more than usual work stress and general interruptions to alone and intimate time together.
With these things going on life has kind of taken over. I have not been feeling nearly as submissive toward my husband as I should and as I want to be. Nor have I been acting it! He has also not been feeling as dominant. Worse than that, we have not been feeling as close and intimate as we usually are.
I know a number of you are going through difficult times at the moment. Some have said despite this (or maybe perhaps even because of this) your dynamic is stronger than ever.
I am sure things will settle back to our kind of normal as the life pressures ease. Then again, Christmas is just around the corner and I also wonder what impact the stress of that will have this year.
It does feel as though we are slowly returning to the level of closeness we usually share. Very slowly. We also have some intimate alone time planned this weekend which I am hoping will help. My husband has also recently told me he intends to introduce role affirmation spankings into our dynamic. (Currently we only practice corrective and erotic spanking). I suppose I have to admit
I am sure this must be something most couples face from time to time. I am curios as to how you deal with these situations in order to retain your dynamic and respective roles. If you are going to suggest that role affirmation spankings are the answer however, please refrain from commenting. Just Kidding! :)