Friday, 3 April 2015

Happy Easter and update

Jello everybody, I just wanted to pop in to wish you all a Happy Easter. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. For our friends in the Northern Hemisphere Easter means spring. I sure hope you are starting to find some warmer weather after the winter you have endured!  Unfortunately for us though, that means autumn here and our clocks go back tomorrow night. It is still quite warm at the moment though.

I still have some great March questions to get to and have also been nominated by Renee Rose and Julia for The Real Neat Blog award. Thank you so much for the wonderful questions and nominations. Trying to write posts is still a pain in the a$$ for me with just a tablet so I may not be able to respond. I hope that is ok.

Things in Rick and Rozzi land have been good. Since my last post we have been playing more and having fun. That has also brought about a deeper connection.

I  know I have previously mentioned that the dynamic we had was a mixture of DD, D/s and also an element of Daddy/little girl. We don't age play, mostly for us we use these terms as a reminder of our roles. During the period of time ttwd has been missing we have continued to use these terms and I have continued to wear my collar (necklace).

We are slowly working through where we want ttwd to take us going forward. I am not sure what direction it will take us. When we called a halt Rick was struggling with the rules/consequences aspect to DD and said he felt he was playing a role and not being himself. However, he is rediscovering his Dominance and we both want to take things further than play. I have always craved general Dominance.

At the moment it's the Daddy/little side of us that seems to be manifesting itself. Lets just say that during play this little girl has developed a renewed enthusiasm for Daddy's .. um .. lollipop, a-hem.

You are beautiful and sexy and I am such a lucky man to be your Daddy and get to whip your behind.

Yep, that was a text from Rick the other day. How sweet lol
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  1. DelFonte3 April 2015 at 05:58

    Smiling reading this - what a lovely text :)
    It seems you're working to something that might have stronger foundations for you both. I crave dominance above all else, not the DD aspect. I hope you continue to move forward.
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 02:42

      Thanks so much DF. LoL, I thought the text was lovely too :)

      We are trying to figure out what works best for us. I don't think we will go back to DD, but you never know I guess. That general Dominance, both in and out of the bedroom is definitely what I crave.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  2. Anonymous3 April 2015 at 06:01

    I love your update, it seems that you are coming more and more closer together and letting this thing take you where it does rather than pushing either it or yourselves into territory you are not sure of.
    I love the daddy/ good girl (naughty girl) thing. We do not age play either but every so often he will refer to himself as daddy or talk about his desire to look after me, I just love that though he does not refer to me as his good girl as often as I would like! There may be something I could do to change that!
    I know how difficult it is doing this with a tablet. I cannot use anything else so that I can ensure privacy from 2 very tech aware enquiring minds I only ever read or write blogs on my iPad. It's not the most user friendly with blogger.

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 02:48

      Thank you so much Janey :) we are definitely more connected and I think taking it slowly and seeing where things lead us is the right thing.

      I do love the Daddy/little side to us and I love it when he calls me his baby girl or good girl. There is no age play. For me it really is a deeper feeling of vulnerability and being cared for.

      As for the tablet. I'm going to have to take lessons from you. I can't figure out how to link, add pics, follow blogs etc.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  3. stay at home mom3 April 2015 at 06:20

    Hi Roz, it is wonderful to see you write again! I love that you and Rick are closer again and that you are building a stronger foundation for you and Rick. It sounds awesome and I fully get you on the craving of general dominance. Sounds wonderful for me. And if you do it your way, it is just the right one. We do not really do age play, but hubby and I also have moments where there might suddenly be Daddy and his little girl. For us it is role affirmation and something very playful. … And there is nothing wrong with a lollipop, is it? :) Hope you are having a wonderful and Happy Easter!

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 02:53

      Hi Nina, thank you so much :)

      We are feeling so much more connected again which is awesome :) trying to work out what is right for us. I do love those moments of being his little girl. We don't age play, it really is a deeper sense of vulnerability and being cared for. Oh, and yes, lollipop is awesome :) *blush*

      Hugs
      Roz

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  4. PK3 April 2015 at 06:29

    What a wonderful update - it definitely gives me hope. I've never know exactly where we're going with TTWD. We seem to just stumble along, but at least we continuer in some fashion.

    I hope your winter season won't be too harsh and YES we are all quite ready for our spring and summer!

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 02:59

      Thanks so much PK. It does feel so good to be getting back to ttwd after such a long time away from it. We are trying to work out what works for us.

      we are stumbling along at the moment and Rick is starting to bring his Dominance out of the bedroom.

      Hope you get some warmer temperatures soon. I am definitely hoping for a mild winter!

      Hugs
      Roz

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  5. Ami Starsong3 April 2015 at 07:00

    Thank you for the update. I am so glad you are gradually moving forwards again to the place where you, as a couple, want to be. It is so important to remember that we are all different and therefore our aspirations are different, and our ways of getting from A to B are different.

    From what I read on the blogs, no one really 'stumbles along'. It's just that everyone "does it their way".

    Sometimes the dominant/submissive things makes me howl with laughter, because Dan's favourite phrase at the moment seems to be "Do as you are told!" Mostly I do, but then, just to be contrary, I do the opposite.

    I wish you and Rick an incredibly Happy Easter, with lots of fun and eggs and happy family times.

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:08

      Thank you so much Ami:)

      I love Dan's favourite phrase. You do have to do the opposite instead occasionally don't you? Just to see if they are awake and paying attention lol

      I love the fact that each couple is unique. We are slowly trying to find out what works for us. For me it's general Dominance, in and outside of the bedroom that I crave.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  6. tori3 April 2015 at 07:48

    Lovely as always to see a post from you.

    Our clocks went forward here last week!

    Really good to hear things are going well, it really i think does take some time, lots of discovering about ourselves to find something that fits, and when it does awesome.

    Wishing you a happy Easter, and a lot more ahem lollipop sucking :)

    x

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:13

      Hi Tori, thank you so much :) I agree, it does take time to find what works for both of you. We are slowly trying to work that out. I do love those moments of being his little girl and for me, it's general Dominance both in and outside of the bedroom I crave.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  7. Aimless Rambling3 April 2015 at 07:52

    Love seeing your name come up on my blog roll. Sounds like life is pretty good down under. Know you're not looking forward to winter, but people on the east coast of this side of he pond are most happyto hand it over.
    Happy Easter to you and yours.

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:16

      Thanks so much Sunny :) it feels great to be playing again and bringing ttwd back after such a long time away from it. It had definitely made us feel more connected. We are slowly trying to work out what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  8. Terpsichore3 April 2015 at 07:52

    so glad you are playing more and having fun. you sound happy and that makes me happy. :-) Hugs! Happy Easter!

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:19

      Thanks so much Terps :) It feels so good to be playing again and slowly bringing ttwd back. We are having fun and feeling more connected. We are slowly trying to work out what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  9. an English Rose3 April 2015 at 09:39

    Hi Roz, oh it is lovely to hear from you. Sounds like you two are having fun with ttwd. I am glad you and Rick are happy. Hope your Autumn is not too bad, the spring is nearly here and we are grateful to see the flowers appearing! Happy Easter!
    love Jan,ss

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:21

      Hi Jan, thank you so much :) We are having fun and feeling more connected. We are slowly trying to work out what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  10. Anonymous3 April 2015 at 09:40

    So happy for you Roz! I just love the way you and Rick are slowly letting your relationship find it's way - I think that is good advice for all of us - and will lead to much more solid foundation for your ttwd etc. I love the text from Rick - makes me smile big for you. :)
    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:25

      Hi Cali, thank you so much :) we are slowly working through what works for us and letting things develop from there. I agree it is the best way. I would advise anyone else take your time and lots of communication.

      He he, I loved the text too :)

      Hugs
      Roz

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  11. Jennelle3 April 2015 at 11:19

    Great to hear from you, and so happy for the two of you!! Wishing you a wonderful Easter and a great Autumn season! Loved the text from Rick, very sweet :)

    Hugs

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:33

      Thank you so much Jennelle :) It feels so good to be playing again and bringing ttwd back. We are slowly trying to work out what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  12. willie3 April 2015 at 16:15

    Spring? Pfft. We are the country it Mother Nature toys with, 15 c today and 10 cm of snow overnight!

    I am too am happy that things are going in a direction you both feel secure in. "Funny" how some men, Barn included need to find their own way, WELL after we think they already have. It just is what it is....but then it becomes so much better!

    Happy Easter.

    love
    willie

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:38

      Hi Willie, thank you so much :) We are trying to work out what works for us. It feels good to be playing again and bringing ttwd back, albeit slowly. I asked Rick today what he thought the catalyst was for him in wanting to bring ttwd back. He wasn't sure lol

      I hope Mother Nature starts being a bit kinder to you.

      Love and hugs
      Roz

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  13. Cat3 April 2015 at 16:35

    So happy to hear how well things are going in Rick and Roz land. Hope you have a wonderful Easter holiday and more fun!

    Hugs and blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:40

      Hi Cat, thank you so much :) we are having fun and feeling more connected. We are slowly trying to work out what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  14. Tiffany3 April 2015 at 21:29

    Am glad things are good my friend. A new blog : simple-country-life.blogspot.com

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:42

      Hi AB, thank you so much :) we are having fun and feeling more connected. It feels good to be playing again and we are trying to work out what works for us.

      Thank you for the link. I will pop by and visit.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  15. Melanie4 April 2015 at 01:32

    So very happy for you!!!! And yes the northern country is still looking forward to spring (at least where I am from) freezing temps one day 50's the next. Mother Nature is bipolar in the northern part of our land.... Happy Easter to you and yours as well.
    I am very glad for you and yours to be moving forward and securing your thing as that is so very vital.

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:45

      Hi Melanie, thank you so much :) it feels great to be playing again. We are slowly working through what works for us.

      I hope Mother Nature is kinder to you soon.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  16. Anonymous4 April 2015 at 01:46

    Your are moving forward and that is the Point.

    Happy Easter, Roz.

    Hugs,
    Mona Lisa

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:47

      Hi Mona Lisa, thank you so much :) it feels good to be moving forward again after such a long time. We are slowly working through what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  17. Renee Rose4 April 2015 at 14:34

    Aw, so sweet. Don't worry about the Neat Blog award thing-- it was just for fun! <3

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:50

      Thanks so much Renee :) and thank you so much again for the nomination :)

      Hugs
      Roz

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  18. Pearl Necklace4 April 2015 at 21:14

    What a wonderful end to a wonderful post! I love his text to you =)

    I hear what you are saying on craving dominance- it can be difficult when you are working on finding your common ground.

    Love that you are both finding the Daddy Dom avenue working so well for you BOTH!!! Enjoy- and I hope to hear more soon!!!

    XOXO Pearl

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:55

      Hi Pearl, thank you so much :) I loved his text too. Very sweet lol

      I definitely crave general Dominance, both in and out of the bedroom. We are slowly working through what works for us. It's funny the Daddy/little side seems to be manifesting itself at the moment. We don't age play. For me it's a greater feeling of vulnerability and being cared for. I guess we will see where ttwd takes us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  19. abby5 April 2015 at 03:15

    It is early Easter morn here, i am waiting for the grands to wake. Glad to year that all is well amd moving forward for the two of you. We all have our own 'brand' of TTWD...finding it is a journey. Happy Easter.
    hugs abby

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 03:59

      Hi Abby, thank you so much :) Hope you are having a wonderful weekend with the grands.

      It is definitely a journey finding what works and we are taking it slowly. It feels great to be playing again and bringing ttwd back. I guess we will see where it takes us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  20. Minielle Labraun5 April 2015 at 09:52

    Hi Roz! I thought I commented the other day! So sorry I am late here!
    Happy! Happy Easter !
    It's funny how our partners surprise us. The good thing is that you both are moving in ways that are enjoyable to who you are!

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    1. Roz6 April 2015 at 04:02

      Hi Minelle, never too late. I really appreciate your comment :)

      They can be full of surprises lol. I asked Rick today what he thought the catalyst was for him wanting to bring ttwd back. He wasn't sure lol. It does feel good to be playing again and bringing ttwd back and we are feeling more connected. We are slowly working through what works for us.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  21. Bleue D'âme7 April 2015 at 09:37

    Roz,

    Connection is everything and feeling connected is so important.
    The lovely thing about ttwd, is it really is to each their own. There is so much room for exploitation and creating a dynamic that fits the two of you, can only be determined by the two of you :-0

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  22. Roz13 April 2015 at 04:30

    Hi Bleuame, thank you so much :) You are right, connection is so important and it feels great to have that deeper level of connection again. There is so much room for exploration and we are slowly trying to work out what works best for us.

    Hugs
    Roz

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