Merry Christmas!

Hi all, Rick and I just wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas! We hope you all have a wonderful time with family and friends.

Christmas feels a bit strange this year. As some of you know, Rick underwent major surgery four weeks ago and has a lot of recovery still ahead of him. He is doing well though and is slowly able to start doing more now. This also explains why my pressence in blogland has been a bit sporadic of late.

As you can imagine, it has been a stressful and worrying time. I am glad that Rick's recovery is during summer.

I also want to say a huge thank you to those who have been in contact with me and offered both of us so much support. I can't tell you how much your support means to us. This community really is so amazing.

Enjoy the holiday period and time with loved ones and if you are traveling, travel safe.

Hugs
Rick and Roz

Finally!

Hello blogland, yes I'm still here...I'm sure you gathered that from my comments on your posts lol. It's been a long time since I was here, too long and I just had the urge to connect with my friends and post.

I hope you all had a wonderful Halloween weekend. It's not huge here in NZ so we didn't celebrate. We did have a great weekend though, especially with the All Blacks winning the Rugby World Cup at the weekend :) Our little country is in full celebration mode let me tell you!

Things are going well here and we are now in spring and daylight saving time, not that you would know it right now. Generally though the weather has been nice, and warm lately and I love the longer days.

It's been so long since I have posted I'm not sure what to update you on. Life goes on as normal. Work seems very trying at the moment. Perhaps just a sign that we are coming to the end of the year and I need a break lol.

You may recall we have been nursing one of our cats through cancer. She is still with us and holding her own really well. It is almost two years since diagnosis! None of us can believe ut, including the vets!

Rick and I are doing well,  though I do miss the extra that a power dynamic brings. The extra closeness and intimacy. We have been enjoying playing though :)

We have attended a BDSM function out of curiosity. It was a very interesting night! What struck me (pun intended lol) is that although there were obvious Dominants and submissives, there were no real power dynamic displays and the atmosphere was light and everyone was having fun. I don't know what I expected really.

We recently purchased some new toys too including nipple clamps, a flogger and a wartenberg wheel. I'm not such a fan of the clamps, Rick is unfortunately lol. The wheel is awesome, well, depending on how it is used. It can be heavenly or evil.

I had been curious, but nervous about floggers for a while. Well, turns out I have a love /hate relationship with it. Used lightly I love it, but with a bit of force...wow! It's amazing the reach the thing has, there doesn't seem to be any place it can't reach lol.

Rick definitely took a shine to the flogger once he got the swing of it, so to speak, Unfortunately though, it broke. I'm not sure if I'm happy about that or not lol.

We also recently had the opportunity to meet another spanko couple in person. It was so great to be able to talk freely and share some experiences and I hope to meet up with them again.

I think that's most of the news from Rick and Rozzi land for now. I hope you are all doing well.

Sex, Spanking and Rock 'N' Roll

I just had to come here and post so that I could use the title lol.

That was what Rick told me the other day our Saturday night would consist of ... and he delivered :)

Things have been busy here and unfortunately, this meant there hasn't been much play recently. Vanilla life seems to have taken over. There has been a recent birth in the family so I am trying to soak up as many baby cuddles as I can.

Mother Nature it seems has also had a bit to say. It is getting a lot colder now as we head to winter. We had torrential rain a couple of weeks ago which caused major flooding, public transport to grind to a halt and general chaos. However, we have since had some lovely, allbeit chilly days. We also had a fairly sizable earthquake a few weeks back.

Back to what you really want to know about ... the title.

As I said above, there hasn't been much play recently and this weekend is a long weekend here (Queen's Birthday weekend). We therefore planned a night Saturday to ourselves to reconnect and just enjoy each others company. In discussing the weekend Rick said sex, spanking and rock ' N ' roll lol.

It was a night of all three. We enjoyed a wonderful dinner together, some sounds, caught up on a couple of shows on tv and watched a movie. It wasn't uninterrupted though with a brief visit from a friend.

Later came time for the sex and spanking part of the night.

On my knees, his fingers pulling my hair and then pinching and pulling my nipples,  his hand at my throat and covering my mouth. I was guided to suck him by his hands in my hair.

Over the bed for a spanking with the leather paddle. Rick has taken to a new technique of spanking from side to side with a flicking motion. It hurts and I became rather vocal. He has also taken to using the paddle lightly on my back and thighs. That is heaven :) During this he was regularly checking to see how a certain part of me was responding.

He then had me stand with my arms above my head and his hands were every where at once. Once again pinching and pulling at my nipples. Next he proceeded to paddle me gently all over, paying particular attention to my breasts.

I'm sure you know how the rest goes :) It was a wonderful, and very late night.

Happy Easter and update

Jello everybody, I just wanted to pop in to wish you all a Happy Easter. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. For our friends in the Northern Hemisphere Easter means spring. I sure hope you are starting to find some warmer weather after the winter you have endured!  Unfortunately for us though, that means autumn here and our clocks go back tomorrow night. It is still quite warm at the moment though.

I still have some great March questions to get to and have also been nominated by Renee Rose and Julia for The Real Neat Blog award. Thank you so much for the wonderful questions and nominations. Trying to write posts is still a pain in the a$$ for me with just a tablet so I may not be able to respond. I hope that is ok.

Things in Rick and Rozzi land have been good. Since my last post we have been playing more and having fun. That has also brought about a deeper connection.

I  know I have previously mentioned that the dynamic we had was a mixture of DD, D/s and also an element of Daddy/little girl. We don't age play, mostly for us we use these terms as a reminder of our roles. During the period of time ttwd has been missing we have continued to use these terms and I have continued to wear my collar (necklace).

We are slowly working through where we want ttwd to take us going forward. I am not sure what direction it will take us. When we called a halt Rick was struggling with the rules/consequences aspect to DD and said he felt he was playing a role and not being himself. However, he is rediscovering his Dominance and we both want to take things further than play. I have always craved general Dominance.

At the moment it's the Daddy/little side of us that seems to be manifesting itself. Lets just say that during play this little girl has developed a renewed enthusiasm for Daddy's .. um .. lollipop, a-hem.

You are beautiful and sexy and I am such a lucky man to be your Daddy and get to whip your behind.

Yep, that was a text from Rick the other day. How sweet lol

100,100 ... and some spanking too :)

Hi all, I hope all our friends in the Northern hemisphere are staying safe and warm!

My dashboard told me last night that my little corner of blogland has reached 100,100 views. Wow! I thought that was such a cool number I just wanted to share. It's small compared to some blogs, but it's big to me:)

When I started this blog I had no idea how far I would go with it, how long I would keep posting and whether anybody would be interesting in reading. I have been amazed at the encouragement and support I have found in this community and the wonderful friendships I have made here. I want to offer my sincere thanks from the bottom of my heart. Your encouragement, comments and advice, both on and off blog have helped Rick and I negotiate our relationship and what DD/ttwd means for us more than I can say.

As you know, we haven't been practicing DD for quite some time now and ttwd has been pretty much non-existent too. I mentioned in my previous post that we had played for the first time in ages.

We are getting to the point where we both desire to bring back some elements of ttwd. It's a matter of how to go about it. I'm glad to say since my last post, we have played again, on a minor scale. Minus clothes pegs I might add! Rick seems to be becoming spank happy again!

Then there was today. We were standing together kissing and cuddling and all of sudden I felt Rick's hand fisting my hair. This progressed to pulling my hair and me ending up on my knees at his feet. He kept me there for a moment stroking my hair and talking to me then pulled me up again.

Next thing I know he had unzipped my jeans and is leading me to the couch and over his knee. He talked as he spanked. Telling me how he enjoys hearing my breathing quicken, my moans and ouches and watching my bottom turn pink. He even had the nerve to laugh as he spanked at one point. Humph!

We had to leave to be somewhere so the spanking was short. After he was finished he said I needed that, and so did you. Hmm, maybe he was right:)

On a side note have you seen 'the dress' on the Internet and the debate over whether it is blue and black or white and gold? Rick and I were debating this prior to the spanking.  I definitely see it as blue and black whereas Rick sees white and gold in some of the pictures and blue and black in others. Anyway, while he was spanking at one point he made a comment about how nice and pink my bottom had become. I was so tempted to ask if he was sure it was pink, not some other colour. I decided biting my lip was a better option!

On a final note, it's now the 2nd of March (here) which must mean Q&A month in blogland.

Beware Of The Clothes Peg!

I know, I have been awol from here for so long. Still having issues trying to write posts.  I wanted to pop on and tell you about last night, and I guess it is also a bit of a cautionary tale .. but firstly, a little update on what we've been up to.

Rick and I enjoyed most of the month of January on holiday from work. We enjoyed the summer weather with lots of day time outings and dates to cafes, favourite spots etc. I also managed to get a lot of those jobs done at home that you only tackle once in a blue moon.  Sadly, work resumed two weeks ago and we have been struggling to get back to normal routine. We have had some wonderful weather, but at the moment we are back to a little cooler  temperatures and howling gale winds and showers. Sigh.

This weekend is a long weekend for us with today  (Friday) being a public holiday.  It will be a busy weekend for us so I apologise in advance if I don't get to visit you this weekend. I see a lot of posts on my blog roll from yesterday and today.

Though I barely post now days, I do try and keep up with everyone. I am so thrilled at the arrivals of TL and Bucko's little  Buckaroo and EsMay and the Duke's little girl. Huge congratulations to all. I hope everyone is doing well and wish you the best.

I know a number of our friends are struggling right now with varying things. You are in my thoughts. Thoughts go out also to our friends in the Northern hemisphere dealing with extreme weather.

As most of you know, we haven't been practicing DD for quite some time now, and I don't know that it will return. Ttwd had pretty much disappeared too with no play. Last night, Rick decided he wanted to play. So, for the first time in ... forever, we played.  Anyway, this meant some spanky fun. OMG, do you know how much it hurts when you haven't been spanked for a long time? I was reacquainted with our nasty wooden spoon, which is more like a paddle, and Rick's belt. There was also some nipple tweaking, pinching and nipping and, yes Abby, kneeling:)

One thing Rick loves during play is to put clothes pegs on my nipples. I bulk and freak every time because man those suckers really hurt going on and worse when released! Thankfully, Rick gave me time to breathe and try and relax before putting the pegs on and taking them off, and did so slowly. OMG, did I mention the pain when they come off?!

After he had removed the pegs he was playing with one of them ... and it broke! We both looked at each other horrified with the same thought. What if it had broken as he was taking  it off my nipple! I hate to think about what could have happened. Imagine if we have had to have called emergency services!

The moral of my little story is only use newer pegs in good condition, or only use them to hang clothes lol. I'm not sure how keen I am on nipple clamps. If we got some Rick would only want to use them lol.

It felt so good to play again, and I can still feel the results. I wonder how long it will be before we play again.