Monday 16 December 2013

Sorry Dear, Did My Backside Hurt Your Hand?

Firstly I want to say thank you all so much for the wonderful, kind and supportive comments on my last post.  The amazing support from this community never ceases to amaze me.  I truly appreciated your comments and receiving them helped me more than I can say.  I am feeling a lot brighter.

The cat has been on steroids for the last week and she is much perkier and is eating well, which was the main reason for the steroids.  Seeing her seem a lot better in herself has been a huge encouragement to me ... but, I need to remember that it is ONLY because of the steroids.  I will talk to the vet tomorrow about her ongoing care.

Why is it that things, both major and minor seem to pile up on each other?

The car failed warrant of fitness as it needed some new tyres.

Thursday Rick and I both ended up with a stomach bug.

Friday was our Christmas lunch day at work.  Get in car to head to work ... dead battery.  Needless to say, it was a good start to the day and I was quite late to work.  BTW, Friday was the 13th right?

I have come to realise despite what I said in my earlier post that although the physical aspects of DD have not been as present recently, Rick has been continuing to lead and has remained in control.  He has been very gentle with me and giving me what I need right now.  That includes a lot of reassurance and hugs.  Oh, and a few more light hearted spankings. We have not had our usual role affirmation sessions.

You may recall in my last post I mentioned we had a dinner to go to last Saturday.  Rick did everything in his power to get me to relax and take a night off everything.  Going to bed that night I stripped down to my knickers and bra and stood by him for his 'inspection' as I always do.  He touched me all over, gentle caresses that set every nerve ending in my body on fire.  Boy I love it when he does that!

He then sat up in bed and pulled me across his lap and proceeded to spank me, alternating between hand and leather paddle.  The spanking was more of the yummy kind, although it did let me know that he was firmly in charge and afterwards his fingers wandered bringing me to the brink.  The whole thing was bliss and exactly what I needed.

This past Saturday we had a rather humorous spanking.  I may have been a tad cheeky.  We were mucking around chatting etc on the couch and I suddenly found myself over his lap.

We lift your nice pink robe

Pull these down ... knickers come down

and

The spanking begins

Ow, ow, oh that hurts, ow, ow

Ow

Wait a minute ... what??

Awe, did you hurt your hand?

Yes I did ... each work punctuated by harder swats.  I couldn't help from giggling interspersed with ouches

Awe, poor you ... ow, that hurts!

It's my left hand too.  My weak hand

I know ... and it hurts!

Ow, ow ... shaking out his hand

No wonder we use implements

Ha!  what about our backsides?

Difference is, your backsides are meant to hurt

Grrr

46 comments:

  1. LOL! That sounds like something Bucko would say. There must be some kind of book they all read with comments like that in them. I'm glad he is there for you and giving you what you need.

    Hugs,
    TL

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    1. Thanks TL :) I'm more and more convinced there is an HoH manual out there LoL. He has been so wonderful and supportive.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  2. Oh gosh...if I had a nickel for every time Barney complained about his shoulder, or sounded like Darth Vader behind me and says, " I really need to get in better shape" , I'd be RICH!!!!

    Hope things lighten up soon for you!
    love
    willie

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    1. Hi Willie, LOL .. well, you do seem to have some rather long spankings :) Things are (thankfully) feeling a little brighter now.

      Love
      Roz

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  3. That all sounds nice. I sure hope you get a calmer time soon.
    The hand thing.... lol...good because it keeps them 'in touch' with our feelings!

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    1. Thanks Minelle, things are still a little crazy, but at least it feels a little brighter now.

      LoL, yes it certainly does. Couldn't agree more!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. Poor poor Rick. MM hardly ever uses his hand for this reason. He says that he's not the one who needs to be in pain. I roll my eyes into the mattress. Sheesh.

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    1. LOL Susie...hope you don't have an eye rolling rule or if you do that MM doesn't read here. ;)

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    2. Hi Susie, grrr, yep, despite the sore hand this time, I've heard that one too. It's not usually said 'in the moment' so I can't roll eyes into the mattress LoL. I have a hard job keeping my mouth shut.

      LoL Cat. For Susie's sake I hope MM doesn't read here too! :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

      Hugs,
      Roz

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    3. MM is very, very busy these days and only reads what I hand to him but it is funny you two--there have actually been times when I've rolled my eyes into the mattress and he's called me on it! He can't see from his vantage point for goodness sake. How does he know?!

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  5. sounded like a nice light-hearted spanking :-) poor hand :-) They say when it rains it pours...hope the sun comes out soon for you... Hugs

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    1. Thanks Terps, it was definitely more fun than anything, his sore hand and my sore butt notwithstanding LoL.

      Oh gosh, I definitely hope it has stopped pouring. I think we've had enough rain for now! Things are still a little crazy, but it's starting to feel brighter.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  6. Love this post. So happy to read you are in a better spot. The playfulness sounds great and needed. Though, your bum may have thought different.

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    1. Thanks HS, things are still a little crazy, but definitely feeling brighter. Oh yes, it was fun, and exactly what I needed.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. Hoping things clam down and start to brighten. I can hear Master saying He is sacrificing His hand for my well being...LOL...and i should aprpeciate it!
    hugs abby

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    1. Thank you Abby, it is feeling a little brighter now, though still a little crazy.

      LoL, ok, there HAS to be a Dom/HoH manual somewhere! I would have a hard job responding to that and staying out of trouble in the process LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. Things do seem to pile on in bunches and hate that it happens at this time of year. had a couple of these ourselves lately. Glad things are resolving in such a terrific way for you both.

    Sorry about his hand (not).

    Love the new Christmassy look.

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    1. Hi Sunny, it's so much worse at this time of year isn't it? It's stressful enough. Sorry to hear you have suffered a bit of the same as well and hope things have resolved for you.

      LoL, I felt really sorry about his hand too (really honey, I did!) :)

      Glad you like the festive look. I love it! All thanks to my elf helpers :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  9. Do they really think we should feel bad for them when their hands hurt? Gotta say I love when the leather paddle is used for a good girl spanking ;) Clara

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    1. LoL Clara, where is the sympathy for our butts huh? ... and aftercare doesn't count.

      Oh yes, I love the leather paddle too for GG spanking. Other spankings ... not so much!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  11. Had to laugh Roz at Rick's sore hand! Ha! So are you saying he uses both hands? Do all the men use both their hands? I'd never thought about that.

    Dan often does the leather paddle interspersed with hand spanking, but just lately it seems to have become a bit too intense to enjoy. Maybe I should suggest he change to his left hand?

    Sadly, his hand doesn't seem to hurt as much as it used to do. It seems to have toughened up! Why, then, doesn't my backside toughen up as well?!

    I love your Christmas look as well. Is it easy to do? It's very effective.

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. HI Ami, he predominantly uses his right hand, but does occasionally use the left. I warn you, the so called 'weak' hand can hurt like the dickens as much as the dominant one.

      I'm sure Rick's dominant hand has toughened up too. Yeah, why is it out backside doesn't seen to toughen up as well!

      I'm glad you like the festive look, I just love it! I always have trouble with backgrounds etc. This was all thanks to a certain Christmas elf ... who strangely enough comes from Bedrock rather than the north pole :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  13. Sorry about that. Hard to comment whilst being jostled on a London bus!
    Glad to know you're feeling better. Having a laugh and giggle is a positive benefit of TTWD that only people who have tried it understand

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    1. Hi Janey, LoL, no worries, I imagine trying to comment on a London bus must be tricky :)

      Thank you, still a little crazy here, but definitely feeling brighter. I totally agree, having a laugh together is a positive benefit of ttwd. I think it's important to be able to have fun with it at times and that doing so increases the connection between you.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  14. I've always heard that "things" happen in threes. Hopefully your threes are over with for a while.
    I'm sorry that you've had such a rough time. But this post seems brighter and the last part gave me a giggle. :)

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    1. Thanks Sarah :) Oh goodness, I think we've had more than our three lately. I really hope it is over for a while!

      Things are still a little crazy, but it is definitely starting to feel brighter now.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  15. LOL Roz, :) glad to know that all is well there, and that you are feeling better, and kitty is too! Gosh sorry to hear about car trouble, etc. yeah when it rains, it seems to pour...

    Seems as though Rick has things quite well in hand- even if it's with his weak one!! LOLOL on that spanky exchange!!! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. LoL Katie, thank you :) it definitely does pour ... and I really hope that's the end for now!

      Things are starting to feel a little brighter now.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  16. Lol. P has learnt the art of switching between hand and implement very well. To his benefit.
    Glad to read a little lightheartedness in your post.
    Hugs DF

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    1. Thanks DF, Rick is also a dab hand at switching between implements as well as hand and implement.

      I wanted to share some more lighter moments after my previous post. They were exactly what I needed at the time. Things are starting to feel a little brighter.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  17. Awww poor Rick..."did oo hurt your wittle hand?" *snicker*

    Seriously though Roz...sending lots of prayers and positive energy that life calms down for you.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. LoL Cat, and thank you :) I'm sure Rick will appreciate your sympathy :)

      Things are starting to calm slightly (apart from the Christmas prep that is!). Things are starting to feel a little brighter.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  18. So sorry bad things seem to be piling up for you at the moment. Unfortunately that's the way it goes. As others have said, when it rains, it pours.

    You sound like you're in a much better place today and that makes me happy for you. I love the playfulness.

    xo

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    1. Thank you Bonnie :) Oh gosh, it sure does pour. I really hope it has now stopped for a while!

      Things are definitely starting to feel a little brighter now.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  19. Glad that you are feeling a little better roz and I really hope your car picks up a bit - big hugs to you and rick. Sounds like a good way to get back into your role affirmation routine - lucky you :-) sir wants to get back into it but I'm just not ready - yet.

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    1. Thank you Kiwi :) Things are definitely starting to feel a little brighter now thankfully and kitty seems to have perked up a lot, although it's only because of the drugs.

      Rick has been very gentle with me a supportive. These more lighthearted sessions were exactly what I needed at the time.

      I'm so sorry you are going through a rough spot right now and am here to chat, email etc anytime.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  20. Sorry to hear things have not been the best. Hope you both are feeling better. Good thoughts coming your way.

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    1. Thank you so much Angel :) Things are definitely feeling a bit brighter now.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  21. Those yummy spankings, to remind us who is in charge, are the best kind aren't they?

    I'm sorry things are so stressful lately, and I'm hoping things clear up soon! :)

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    1. Thank you Kenzie, things are starting to feel brighter now and yes, yummy spankings are definitely the best kind :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  22. This post made me lol! I'm very glad you are feeling better, and yes to things piling up. I had a day like that yesterday, and then today I'm back on track, heh!

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    1. Hi DH, and thank you, things have definitely been piling up lately, but it's starting to feel a little brighter now thank goodness.

      Glad you enjoyed this. We manage to have some fun moments together amid the chaos :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  23. I am behind, sorry. Sounds like you guys are getting back into a good groove. :) I love that even if he's not spanking you, he's still leading you... though from the sounds of it, the spankings are well on their way to being back. ;)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. Hi Es May, I have realised that while the physical aspects of DD may not be as present right now, Rick is definitely still leading and has been giving me what I need. Spankings recently have been more of the fun kind, but with a message behind them :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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