tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post7600830872148823296..comments2024-01-25T04:25:43.196-08:00Comments on Roz in his hands: A Shaky Week and a ResetRozhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-54251536806920107172013-08-05T18:47:35.901-07:002013-08-05T18:47:35.901-07:00I read this yesterday, and I didn't respond. I...I read this yesterday, and I didn't respond. I guess I just didn't how to respond. I did pray for you, and I guess I could have at the very least said that. We don't have earthquakes here. We have tornadoes, and as bad as they can be, I always liked the idea of having a little more warning. Fortunately, I have only seen the aftermath of them, and not actually been in one. I have spent time in a hallway, close to a closest, as we listened to the weather. It's a common warning here, so it tends to not be so scarey unless they start reporting damage, or if they say it's very close. I have family in California who have been affected by earthquakes but I never experenced one. I can not fathom how scarey it must be. A week from now, I am going to visit my relatives in California. I HOPE that I don't get to find out what Earthquakes are like. I also hope you are feeling better. I know much to well, what it's like to have the other kind of storms (the emotional ones), the ones that were created by someone other than yourself. My husband made some very costly mistakes that almost ended our marriage. I don't feel like he ever felt the pain in the same way that I did, but I can tell you he felt the pain of seeing what he had caused. He never meant to cause me pain, yet he took that chance. He then had to look at the person, he loved most, experience years of pain, depression, and doubt. There were consequences. I don't know if that may be part of the reason it is hard for him to punish me or cause me any pain now. I hope you are feeling better, and all is working out in your world. May God keep you and your loved ones safe and may he give you peace both externally and inwardly. Love and Prayers, -Belle L.Belle Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222752720181960143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-25055032031562204802013-08-03T06:14:55.632-07:002013-08-03T06:14:55.632-07:00Hi Lil,
Thank you so much :)
It was a very rough...Hi Lil,<br /><br />Thank you so much :)<br /><br />It was a very rough week, that's for sure! Earthquakes are reasonably common here, but not that magnitude. If definitely was scary! Two weeks later and the aftershocks are still continuing, although we are not feeling most of them. I'm still feeling a little unnerved by it.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-39806609640596312013-08-03T06:11:35.879-07:002013-08-03T06:11:35.879-07:00Hi Julia,
Thank you :)
I'm not unaccustomed ...Hi Julia,<br /><br />Thank you :)<br /><br />I'm not unaccustomed to quakes here, they are reasonably common, but not that magnitude or number of aftershocks. It was definitely scary! Two weeks later and we are still having aftershocks, although we aren't feeling most of them. It's leaving me feeling a little unnerved though.<br /><br />Rick was so wonderful and reassuring. He definitely knew what I needed<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-51622940495774055702013-08-03T06:08:44.804-07:002013-08-03T06:08:44.804-07:00Thanks Bea :)
Yes, safe but still feeling a littl...Thanks Bea :)<br /><br />Yes, safe but still feeling a little unnerved as the aftershocks are still continuing 2 weeks later, although we aren't feeling most of them.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-21418756557961340282013-08-03T06:07:27.732-07:002013-08-03T06:07:27.732-07:00Hi Irishey,
Thank you. You always crack me up :)...Hi Irishey,<br /><br />Thank you. You always crack me up :)<br /><br />I'm glad I was able to help my friend when she needed a shoulder. Rick said he was proud of me for doing so too :)<br /><br />LoL, yeah, getting on the step ladder was not my finest move. The man wasn't too happy about it I can tell you! In case you're wondering ... no, I didn't get spanked for it LoL<br /><br />It does my head in wondering how and why this works. I'm just glad that it does :) I'm still feeling somewhat unnerved as the aftershocks are still continuing, although we aren't feeling most of them.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-52551796974562293812013-08-02T19:39:51.963-07:002013-08-02T19:39:51.963-07:00Oh Roz, that is a lot!
And earthquakes are scary.
...Oh Roz, that is a lot!<br />And earthquakes are scary.<br /><br />I hope that everything is going better. And the ground's not shaking.<br /><br />HugsStormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-69959512302836577322013-08-01T09:59:10.263-07:002013-08-01T09:59:10.263-07:00Wow, that must have been so scary! And to have thi...Wow, that must have been so scary! And to have this going on for days, wow. I am glad you are safe.<br />And sounds like he knew just what you needed, just lovely. And no weight gain, score!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-32303027842538065582013-07-31T21:23:37.310-07:002013-07-31T21:23:37.310-07:00Glad that you're safe, Roz.
BeaGlad that you're safe, Roz.<br />Beamybeahind.wordpress.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02385085486119138467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-63479802767695376342013-07-31T10:56:09.613-07:002013-07-31T10:56:09.613-07:00Hey, Roz. Missed the news about your quakes. Misse...Hey, Roz. Missed the news about your quakes. Missed your post. I'm a mess of misses lately. <br /><br />I'm glad you reached out to your friend when she needed you. That was an answered-prayer thing you did, whether or not she prayed for someone to lean on.<br /><br />Earthquakes, after-shocks, ordered to stay home... climbing ladders... My lips are shut. My fingers are resisting typing the words that will ask if you bumped your head. But, my eyes are rolling, my head is shaking, and you cannot hear my little snort of disbelief and wonder at what you were (not) thinking about - so I'm safe. ;-) I'm just teasing. I'm relieved and happy you are okay. <br /><br />Your "rock," Rick, rocks. I've mentioned that a time or few. I'm glad he could help you release some of the churning emotions and feel re-centered.<br /><br />I wonder if anybody truly understands the mystery of how all of this works? In the end, the most important thing is that you've found something that makes you feel better, and works for both of you. <br /><br />Hugs! Irisheyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12270910306787125881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-15633655589018523272013-07-31T04:18:21.516-07:002013-07-31T04:18:21.516-07:00Hi Bekah,
Thank you :) Rick was wonderful. He k...Hi Bekah,<br /><br />Thank you :) Rick was wonderful. He knew exactly what I needed, especially the cuddle and reassuring words afterwards.<br /><br />I'm still feeling a little unnerved as we are still getting aftershocks, though we aren't feeling many of them.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-14960548032781204382013-07-31T04:15:49.338-07:002013-07-31T04:15:49.338-07:00Hi Blondie,
Thank you so much for your lovely com...Hi Blondie,<br /><br />Thank you so much for your lovely comment. We are still experiencing aftershocks, but we aren't feeling most of them. Earthquakes are fairly common here, but not that magnitude and the amount of aftershocks.<br /><br />Rick truly was my rock. He was so wonderful and reassuring and did know exactly what I needed. The cuddles and aftercare were amazing :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-77259957918426838502013-07-31T04:01:28.088-07:002013-07-31T04:01:28.088-07:00Hi Kenzie,
Thank you :)
It was definitely a roug...Hi Kenzie,<br /><br />Thank you :)<br /><br />It was definitely a rough and emotional week. Rick definitely did know exactly what I needed. He was so wonderful and reassuring.<br /><br />The aftershocks are still coming, but we aren't feeling most of them. I am still a little unnerved.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-12031279522309121652013-07-31T03:59:32.993-07:002013-07-31T03:59:32.993-07:00Hi Grace,
Thank you :)
It was definitely a tough...Hi Grace,<br /><br />Thank you :)<br /><br />It was definitely a tough week with lots of different emotions. Fear, upset, exhaustion etc. Rick was so wonderful and supportive and knew exactly what I needed, especially the wonderful cuddles and talking afterwards :)<br /><br />Aftershocks are still occurring, but we aren't feeling most of them. I admit, I am still feeling a little unnerved.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-41108940304513062402013-07-31T03:57:00.729-07:002013-07-31T03:57:00.729-07:00Hi Ami, Thank you so much :)
LoL, well, yes, I c...Hi Ami, Thank you so much :)<br /><br />LoL, well, yes, I can honestly say I would much prefer the earth to move in different ways :) Earthquakes are fairly common here, but not that magnitude or number of aftershocks. They are still continuing, but we aren't feeling most of them.<br /><br />This was new for us. The spanking was part of our usual role affirmation but ended up being stress relief also. It is such a great feeling to have that release of emotion.<br /><br />Yes, he surprised me with the scales. I guess he decided enough was enough with my constant worrying about it LoL. Going up the step ladder during an 'enforced' day off work due to earthquakes is not the smartest move. I wouldn't recommend it LoL<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-20303590083394011242013-07-31T03:51:55.450-07:002013-07-31T03:51:55.450-07:00Hi Jan,
Thank you so much :)
It was very scary a...Hi Jan,<br /><br />Thank you so much :)<br /><br />It was very scary and the aftershocks are continuing, although we aren't feeling many of them. It was scary. As I said above, they are fairly common here, but not that magnitude or number of aftershocks.<br /><br />LoL It was brave of him, but he was fairly confident. We joked about it afterwards and I told him it had been a brave move LoL<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-52589290418009155242013-07-31T03:49:08.394-07:002013-07-31T03:49:08.394-07:00Hi Lucy,
Thank you so much :)
It was damn scary....Hi Lucy,<br /><br />Thank you so much :)<br /><br />It was damn scary. Earthquakes are fairly common here, but not that magnitude! The aftershocks are still continuing, but we aren't feeling most of them.<br /><br />LoL. Yes, he was very brave, but he was also fairly confident. We joked about it afterwards and I told him he was brave. He said had it have gone the other way he would have lied LoL. He was joking of course. Yes, I don't think he will put up with me worrying about weight anymore!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-58817907366657315542013-07-31T03:45:26.755-07:002013-07-31T03:45:26.755-07:00Hi Katie, thank you so much, and please don't...Hi Katie, thank you so much, and please don't apologise :)<br /><br />Rick has been so wonderful and reassuring and knew exactly what I needed. Especially the cuddles and reassuring talking afterwards :)<br /><br />As I said above, the aftershocks are still continuing, but we aren't feeling most of them now. I'm still feeling a little unnerved.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-91152954947239141642013-07-31T03:43:05.653-07:002013-07-31T03:43:05.653-07:00Hi Missy,
Than you so much :) It was scary. Ear...Hi Missy,<br /><br />Than you so much :) It was scary. Earthquakes are fairly common here, but not that magnitude and so many aftershocks. They are still continuing, but we aren't feeling most of them now.<br /><br />Yes I know .. getting on the step ladder wasn't the smartest move LoL.<br /><br />This was certainly new for us. The spanking was part of our usual role affirmation, but it ended up being stress relief. He does look after me so well, I am so lucky :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz<br /><br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-75374999250547831472013-07-31T03:39:57.090-07:002013-07-31T03:39:57.090-07:00Hi Cat, thank you so much, you are so sweet, and p...Hi Cat, thank you so much, you are so sweet, and please don't apologise :)<br /><br />It has been a scary time, and the aftershocks are still continuing, although we aren't feeling most of them. Rick definitely knew what I needed and has been so wonderful and reassuring. I am so very lucky :)<br /><br />No, you didn't miss a post. I decided to spend part of my 'enforced' day off work due to the quake getting on the step ladder cleaning the inside of some of the windows. Not a very smart move LoL. Fortunately, I didn't feel any quakes while I was up there!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-19838513715761690562013-07-31T03:23:35.972-07:002013-07-31T03:23:35.972-07:00Hi Es May,
Thank you for your lovely comment :)
...Hi Es May,<br /><br />Thank you for your lovely comment :)<br /><br />LoL, I think you might be right about not getting away with worrying about my weight from now on. He was so wonderful and reassuring. he really is my rock.<br /><br />The aftershocks are still continuing, but we aren't feeling most of them. I'm still feeling a little unnerved.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-52168215232835885552013-07-31T02:57:49.922-07:002013-07-31T02:57:49.922-07:00Hi Brenna,
Welcome! Thank you for reading and fo...Hi Brenna,<br /><br />Welcome! Thank you for reading and for your comment.<br /><br />LoL, yes well, I admit, getting on the step ladder wasn't my finest moment. Earthquakes are fairly common here too, but not that magnitude or number of aftershocks. They are still continuing, though small and mostly not felt by us. I'm still a bit unnerved though.<br /><br />The spanking for release was a first for us. It was part of our usual role affirmation, but ended up being stress relief. I find I cry a lot more now. I never used to and not sure why that is.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-65072570330989060372013-07-31T02:19:59.023-07:002013-07-31T02:19:59.023-07:00Hi Betsy, thank you :)
LoL, well, take it from me...Hi Betsy, thank you :)<br /><br />LoL, well, take it from me. Its not a good idea to jump on step ladders during a swarm of earthquakes! I don't recommend it! Fortunately, i didn't feel any while I was 'up there'. Although there would have been a few, but fortunately small.<br /><br />With everything that occurred it was a helluva week. That's for sure!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-65684649166659164732013-07-31T02:16:25.109-07:002013-07-31T02:16:25.109-07:00Hi Mona,
It was scary and the aftershocks are con...Hi Mona,<br /><br />It was scary and the aftershocks are continuing, though they are small and mostly not felt by us. I am still feeling a little frightened though.<br /><br />That's a good question! The spanking happened as part of our normal role affirmation, but it was stress relief as well. The cuddling and talking etc afterwards was wonderful and we felt really connected. These rest did happen as well later on :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-1933675325243778762013-07-31T02:12:21.793-07:002013-07-31T02:12:21.793-07:00Hi Sarah,
Thank you :) It was definitely a tough...Hi Sarah,<br /><br />Thank you :) It was definitely a tough week alright, and a week of lots of different emotions.<br /><br />LoL ... um .... yes, climbing on the step ladder cleaning windows was not the smartest thing to do at the time. Luckily there were no quakes while I was up there. Well, there was but small and I didn't feel them.<br /><br />Rick was so wonderful and reassuring. He certainly knew what I needed.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-5071721077168219942013-07-31T02:08:51.328-07:002013-07-31T02:08:51.328-07:00Thanks so much Angel, I really appreciate it :)
T...Thanks so much Angel, I really appreciate it :)<br /><br />The aftershocks are still continuing, though small and mostly unfelt by us. It has left me still feeling a little unnerved though.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com