tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post1996104955452956001..comments2024-01-25T04:25:43.196-08:00Comments on Roz in his hands: A Question of Tolerance - Comparison PostRozhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-37765563880388745962013-06-14T07:15:57.794-07:002013-06-14T07:15:57.794-07:00Hi Jessica,
Thank you :) ... and thank you so mu...Hi Jessica, <br /><br />Thank you :) ... and thank you so much for reading and commenting.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-27356638375648735602013-06-13T20:02:16.286-07:002013-06-13T20:02:16.286-07:00Very nice informative blog :)Very nice informative blog :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00980941633320810008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-84308657842140705522013-04-30T05:22:36.148-07:002013-04-30T05:22:36.148-07:00Hi Zoe,
It's funny how that works isn't i...Hi Zoe,<br /><br />It's funny how that works isn't it? It really is tied in to the purpose for the spanking (fun/punishment etc) and the emotions involved. The two certainly are worlds apart from each other!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-18292622304519589662013-04-30T05:20:22.174-07:002013-04-30T05:20:22.174-07:00Hi Es May, never too late, I know you had a 'b...Hi Es May, never too late, I know you had a 'busy' weekend LoL. I'm glad it was such a positive experience for you both.<br /><br />Ah the lecture, it is very effective isn't it. Rick does keep me guessing a bit at times as to whether the spanking/lecture is over.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-80795484431939858252013-04-30T05:17:40.738-07:002013-04-30T05:17:40.738-07:00Hi Lily, thank you. Our mindset and emotions do p...Hi Lily, thank you. Our mindset and emotions do play such a big part don't they and I agree, similar, yet completely different due to the emotions involved. It's the combination that does it for me too.<br /><br />It is so interesting to get different perspectives.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-27445766731545817202013-04-29T21:01:28.387-07:002013-04-29T21:01:28.387-07:00I agree with so much. We do have to vary things so...I agree with so much. We do have to vary things so they don't get boring. The same implement used for fun or punishment can feel completely different and that is something I didn't understand before I started. <br /><br />Such a wonderful post. Zoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14996372521289523525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-34238925883488881422013-04-29T19:23:09.986-07:002013-04-29T19:23:09.986-07:00Sorry I am so behind, I wasn't allowed to catc...Sorry I am so behind, I wasn't allowed to catch up on blogs over the weekend. ;) I totally agree about the spankings needing to increase in intensity. I definitely could not have handled the spankings I get now in the beginning. But also, if I got a spanking now that I got in the beginning, I would be left with "What the heck? Why are you being so soft?" And I totally agree on the lecturing. The Duke now lectures during the spanking, and I do find this way more effective. Though I am still always told when the lecturing is done... not sure how I'd feel to have to keep guessing. :) Please don't share that thought with the Duke! :) Thank you for the post, so great. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-31988903400059245612013-04-29T07:03:10.574-07:002013-04-29T07:03:10.574-07:00Roz I just loved this post. I for one always thoug...Roz I just loved this post. I for one always thought it was interesting how much the mindset and emotions factor into the spankings themselves. It can be a fairly similar spanking for play or punishment but they're completely different at the same time. I for one rarely cry from a spanking itself but more from the combo of the pain, scolding and the disappointment. I do think butt have a definite way of adapting to spankings. Mine is getting used to more and more so Daddy has had to slowly but surely increase the length and intensity. It's always interesting to see other's thoughts on the topic. Thanks for the dual post!<br /><3 LilyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-23761559174964917472013-04-28T03:44:24.778-07:002013-04-28T03:44:24.778-07:00Thank you Tiffany :)
Hugs,
RozThank you Tiffany :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-13149611260972259512013-04-28T03:43:09.876-07:002013-04-28T03:43:09.876-07:00Hi Susie,
Thank you. This was so interesting to d...Hi Susie,<br /><br />Thank you. This was so interesting to do .. seeing the differences and similarities, not only between Ami and myself, but also between different kinds of spanking. Our psyche is such a big factor.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-20566403971930855112013-04-28T03:40:15.339-07:002013-04-28T03:40:15.339-07:00Hi Terps,
You're welcome :) It certainly wa...Hi Terps, <br /><br />You're welcome :) It certainly was an interesting exercise for us .. seeing the similarities and differences.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-6605638503664850242013-04-28T03:38:31.542-07:002013-04-28T03:38:31.542-07:00Hi Minelle,
Thank you .. thank you too for raisin...Hi Minelle,<br /><br />Thank you .. thank you too for raising some really good and interesting points. Tolerance is a very individual thing that can only be explored through experience. I agree too that it keeps changing as our emotions and the way we do things change. Of course, the intensity of the spanker can not be understated as a factor! <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-61230603084824261002013-04-28T03:33:41.748-07:002013-04-28T03:33:41.748-07:00Hi Bob, thank you and you're welcome :)
I'...Hi Bob, thank you and you're welcome :)<br /><br />I'm so glad you found it helpful in some way. I hope the fact that it's raised some questions for you is good.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-18560414194958560612013-04-28T03:31:41.945-07:002013-04-28T03:31:41.945-07:00Hi Sarah,
Welcome! Thank you so much for reading...Hi Sarah,<br /><br />Welcome! Thank you so much for reading and for your lovely comment.<br /><br />I enjoyed writing this and found it a great to reflect on my own reactions. It was so interesting to see the similarities and differences.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz<br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-52214076002479334572013-04-28T03:27:11.509-07:002013-04-28T03:27:11.509-07:00Hi Marie,
Thank you so much. Well ... you know c...Hi Marie,<br /><br />Thank you so much. Well ... you know curiosity killed the cat. Just kidding.<br /><br />It does seem most of us have a higher tolerance for play spankings. I think it shows that emotion and mindset play a huge part in our tolerance. Punishment spankings have a lot of emotion tied in with them.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-56997462398361358382013-04-28T03:24:41.709-07:002013-04-28T03:24:41.709-07:00Hi Sunny,
I think our emotions and mindset are pr...Hi Sunny,<br /><br />I think our emotions and mindset are probably the biggest factor and as Julia said, whether all conditions are right.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-18959201836987682332013-04-28T03:22:48.466-07:002013-04-28T03:22:48.466-07:00Thanks Abby :) I hope you recovery is going well....Thanks Abby :) I hope you recovery is going well.<br /><br />It is funny how our tolerance can increase then lapse. There are so many factors that come into play.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-49195227341934649872013-04-28T03:13:20.780-07:002013-04-28T03:13:20.780-07:00Hi DF, thank you :)
I think mood and emotions are...Hi DF, thank you :)<br /><br />I think mood and emotions are probably the biggest factors in how we react and it seems that play spankings can quite often be harder than 'real' spankings. I think that is because of the emotions tied up in them and that, unlike play, aren't sexually charged .. well, for us anyway.<br /><br />No two spankings are the same for sure. Given that we do play/erotic, R/A and discipline I can say there is definitely a world of difference between the play/erotic and other kinds of spanking. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-86564036624495392992013-04-28T03:07:57.159-07:002013-04-28T03:07:57.159-07:00Hi Ami,
I enjoyed doing this. It was a great opp...Hi Ami,<br /><br />I enjoyed doing this. It was a great opportunity for me to reflect on us and how we do things as well as my own reactions. Thank you so much for asking me. I'm glad you found it helpful to you. <br /><br />You did such an awesome job on your post and it was so interesting to see the similarities and differences.<br /><br />Looking at your arsenal I would very much doubt your tolerance is lower LoL, and I've never heard you squeak from here :)<br /><br />Our emotions and mindset probably play the biggest part in how we react I think. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-32906299444942159102013-04-28T03:02:52.583-07:002013-04-28T03:02:52.583-07:00Hi Jan,
Thank you so much for your lovely comment...Hi Jan,<br /><br />Thank you so much for your lovely comment :)<br /><br />Funny isn't it how play spankings are often harder than 'real' ones. I think it's because there is so much emotion tied in with 'real' spankings, and, of course, (for us anyway) there isn't a sexual charge to them.<br /><br />Careful what you wish for! LoL<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-74632389110756993372013-04-28T03:00:39.977-07:002013-04-28T03:00:39.977-07:00Hi Julia,
Thank you :) I agree, setting, positio...Hi Julia,<br /><br />Thank you :) I agree, setting, position and privacy are definite factors as well. If the setting is right I too can sometimes take more than Rick will give. For me, it's the pauses that make all the difference. Rick seems extremely good at knowing what point to pause and give me a little breather.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz<br /><br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-64573679386821876692013-04-28T02:56:30.140-07:002013-04-28T02:56:30.140-07:00Hey Junie, my long lost twin :)
It's so inter...Hey Junie, my long lost twin :)<br /><br />It's so interesting to see the similarities and differences isn't it? The ramp sounds like a great idea and why aren't I surprised you say your play spankings would send others running for the hills? LoL<br /><br />I too need that closeness afterwards, regardless of the type of spanking and can never be close enough to him.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-45143896897457774722013-04-28T02:52:29.970-07:002013-04-28T02:52:29.970-07:00Hi Lillie,
You make a good point, our tolerance d...Hi Lillie,<br /><br />You make a good point, our tolerance does also recede when we are without for a period. Length of time between spankings is definitely another factor. <br /><br />I agree with you about the hand too. It is so much more intimate. There is nothing like skin on skin.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-90179672658837228632013-04-27T21:40:12.662-07:002013-04-27T21:40:12.662-07:00Wonderful post and very thorough :-)Wonderful post and very thorough :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-43079783260216614452013-04-27T18:39:00.046-07:002013-04-27T18:39:00.046-07:00I really enjoyed this Roz--the similarities and th...I really enjoyed this Roz--the similarities and the differences and just thinking about all the ways that our psyche realizes the differences with so many parameters.<br /><br />Stuff to chew on here...thanks.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.com