tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post1595777680614032433..comments2024-01-25T04:25:43.196-08:00Comments on Roz in his hands: Oops - I Did It Again!Rozhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-92151099577103669242012-10-13T02:06:24.809-07:002012-10-13T02:06:24.809-07:00Hi Irishey, Rick is really supportive of me tappin...Hi Irishey, Rick is really supportive of me tapping into the blogging community and having my own blog as a means of help and support when I am struggling.<br /><br />The problem is, as you said, striking the balance between that and everything else. Not to mention, not undermining physical health by choosing the computer over getting enough rest. It is absolutely no excuse for defying his instructions either. <br /><br />When any of these things occur, he steps in to correct it - a little time away doesn't hurt, and it also gives me time to gain a little perspective on priorities :)Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-64608740170348476992012-10-13T01:54:19.458-07:002012-10-13T01:54:19.458-07:00Hi Ana, It's still a work in progress. This i...Hi Ana, It's still a work in progress. This is such a toughie for me because I am such a night owl. I am working hard at trying to keep better hours - and keeping out of trouble on this issue - no further consequences so far. I just have to try and keep it that way :)Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-45193275220924667542012-10-13T01:50:10.605-07:002012-10-13T01:50:10.605-07:00Hi Riley, Welcome! and thank you for reading and c...Hi Riley, Welcome! and thank you for reading and commenting.<br /><br />It is hard sometimes being told to go to bed, especially when there are other things I want to be doing, or if I don't feel overly tired.<br /><br />Thankfully though, it's always rather late anyway by the time I am told to go and I am fairly ready. I also don't have a set bedtime right now. I hope it stays that way because I don't know how I would deal with that!Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-77806148288450488142012-10-10T17:11:00.514-07:002012-10-10T17:11:00.514-07:00Aww I imagine it's hard to have a bedtime! I&#...Aww I imagine it's hard to have a bedtime! I'll sometimes get told to go to bed if I'm already tired, but going to bed when I'm not tired is just not something I'd deal with very happily! (((hugs))))Rileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01839475326755424479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-17383399972872526782012-10-10T03:58:17.325-07:002012-10-10T03:58:17.325-07:00I'm late commenting but boy do I hear you. Be...I'm late commenting but boy do I hear you. Bedtime is a really tough one because going to sleep is not within our control. I hope you've got it all figured out now and will be able to escape further consequences.Anahttp://governingana.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-78539834220830700732012-10-07T14:33:37.995-07:002012-10-07T14:33:37.995-07:00Hey, Roz. I'm not shaking my head at you. This...Hey, Roz. I'm not shaking my head at you. This is new-ish, plus things keep cropping up and it helps to read what others think and how they cope. It's also very helpful to learn through others's mistakes and insight, head things off before they happen, find new ways to think of things in a more mature manner.<br /><br />Okay, you know all that. So, no help from Irishey's Isle. Does Rick understand your quest here, what you're hoping to learn and why, how it helps you to think things through by tapping into the ttwd/dd community, that you need/want the support of others who may have experienced similar struggles? It's not all hijinks and shenanigans on the blogs. It's educational, enlightening, and provides an outlet for unique emotional support - things not readily available to you from family and friends in your "real" world.<br /><br />I don't mean for that to sound as though the two of you haven't discussed the significance of your blog participation, or that he may not have a clue. That was just me thinking out loud about the benefits, not a commentary on the justification for being allowed unlimited online time. Your physical health is important, as is the health of your relationship. Proper time management will help both. I always try to give equal weight to the underlying emotional/mental health needs that can be overlooked.<br /><br />Balance and communication, love, respect, consideration, cooperation and common courtesy. These things are always easy as pie! Ha!. ;-)<br /><br />IrisheyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-30911138476858783242012-10-07T02:13:37.486-07:002012-10-07T02:13:37.486-07:00Hi June, Lol, It is so hard sometimes to know when...Hi June, Lol, It is so hard sometimes to know when to stop isn't it? There is always one more job to be done. Never enough hours in the day.<br /><br />Ooh, toothpaste all over the bathroom - that would send me into orbit LolRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-78139809007419063272012-10-07T02:07:41.607-07:002012-10-07T02:07:41.607-07:00Hi CG, Yep, I sure was lucky it was only one day, ...Hi CG, Yep, I sure was lucky it was only one day, especially given recent history! A point Rick reinforced during the spanking I also got for this - sigh! <br /><br />I will be careful from now on, believe me! It's something I will be working hard at. Besides anything else, given recent history I really need to provide to Rick that he can trust me with this.<br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-38004909949613454872012-10-07T01:58:53.406-07:002012-10-07T01:58:53.406-07:00Hi Lillie, argh, I'm with ya sister! - I think...Hi Lillie, argh, I'm with ya sister! - I think they mess with our blogging because they know cutting us off is like cutting our arm off Lol.<br /><br />Oh no! Let's make a pact to help each other to try and ensure we don't get limits placed on us. I don't have one at the moment, but like you it's fast becoming a possibility and I'm not sure how well I'd take it either!Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-86519549787169966132012-10-07T01:53:13.570-07:002012-10-07T01:53:13.570-07:00Hi Lucy, thank you, your comment gave me a giggle....Hi Lucy, thank you, your comment gave me a giggle.<br /><br />You are soo right. Sometimes we don't see the importance in some rules as our husband's do and that makes them hard to follow. <br /><br />My blogging friends are certainly giving me lots of incentive to sort out this little problem. I certainly don't want to be grounded (yet again!) because you can bet if I do, it won't just be for a day! besides, we can't have you with less to read :)<br /><br />I will try hard to stay out of trouble - promise :)Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-67589950283029071682012-10-07T01:48:25.700-07:002012-10-07T01:48:25.700-07:00He Bas, I tried the mirror, it wasn't any hel...He Bas, I tried the mirror, it wasn't any help. Turns out it wasn't a magic mirror. I even tried to ask it who is the fairest in the land :)<br /><br />Seriously, I get the sentiment. You are right, of course. I need to look to myself and my own motives to sort this out. <br /><br />I seriously don't want to be banned from blogland (again!). I will think of my blogging friends. That will (hopefully) give me the incentive to behave :)Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-3018312862838323012012-10-07T00:26:26.631-07:002012-10-07T00:26:26.631-07:00Hi Susie, thank you so much for your support and e...Hi Susie, thank you so much for your support and encouragement, I really appreciate it :)<br /><br />I did get spanked (again!) and he pretty much reiterated everything you said - that he needs to be able to trust me and that it is about keeping me healthy. <br /><br />Thanks for the vote of confidence. I'll be here to cheer you on too :)<br /><br />Oh yes - o-b-e-y - my fingers want to stop too. I also tend to choke on saying the word lolRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-54346268762080185432012-10-05T20:03:52.652-07:002012-10-05T20:03:52.652-07:00Oh gosh, with me it's always, just one more jo...Oh gosh, with me it's always, just one more job I can finish and get a head start on tomorrow. There are never enough hours in the day, the laundry breeds (worse than rabbits!), the boys like to watch the sonic brush send white specks of toothpaste flitting all over the freshly cleaned bathroom, bedtime snacks fill the cleaned and polished sink - blech! lol so that's my story.Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-52487318451978216792012-10-05T13:44:54.838-07:002012-10-05T13:44:54.838-07:00Yeah, you're lucky it was only for one night! ...Yeah, you're lucky it was only for one night! Be very careful, Roz! We'd hate to see you grounded for longer than a night. I know, sometimes, it's just hard to manage time! Believe me, I can relate. Don't beat yourelf up too much though. Of course, we all make mistakes. Just learn from it and move on. Hope you have a great weekend, Roz. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-80344718759002186162012-10-05T11:12:29.436-07:002012-10-05T11:12:29.436-07:00Oh Roz - why do they have to mess around with the ...Oh Roz - why do they have to mess around with the blogging? Does Ian really need clean socks?<br />I have been getting the 3rd degree lately and I have been put on notice regarding my excessive blogging.<br />I know there is a time limit clunking around in Ian's head and I am going to end up being restricted and I know I am not going to take it well. sigh<br />He is right, however, I could do this all day if I could get away with it.<br />Good luck, friend. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12062533298458764009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-91361025658980858222012-10-05T08:52:38.795-07:002012-10-05T08:52:38.795-07:00Ack! I don't know why you are doing it either....Ack! I don't know why you are doing it either. Sometimes I think it is easy for us to not see as much importance in certain rules as our hubbys do....those tend to be the hardest to follow, atleast for me anyway :D<br /><br />You must stay out of trouble (wagging my finger at you)because if you get grounded I will have less to read....and we can't have that :)<br /><br />No really, I am pulling for you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05065154899098398575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-55863501473088753292012-10-05T07:45:12.169-07:002012-10-05T07:45:12.169-07:00Well, don't ask us why you are doing it.
Find ...Well, don't ask us why you are doing it.<br />Find a mirror and ask again.<br />Maybe you can tell that stranger in the mirror to behave because being banned from blogging is not going to go over good with your blogging friends.Bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378333708912059004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-65137899293546528782012-10-05T05:03:40.562-07:002012-10-05T05:03:40.562-07:00I have this same problem with quitting work at 7:3...I have this same problem with quitting work at 7:30. If he's home, it's easy. At 7:27 I'll hear him rushing up the stairs to make sure I realize what time it is. If he's not here I can make a million excuses for why it would be okay to disobey just this one time. 7:35 is not okay either. They are both right, they need to be able to trust us when they are not here. Neither is an arbitrary rule, there's good reasons behind them and they are mostly about keeping us healthy. Mine worries when I get too tired. <br /><br />So...no tutting from me. I'm sorry that this will return in your "review" but yeah, I know it's good and one step closer to getting this right next time. I hope he's not too hard on you. <br /><br />You can do it Roz! This will go better next week. When I struggle next week I'll think of you and cheer you on. It'll help me obey too. LOL...have you ever noticed how hard it is to type the word o-b-e-y. My fingers want to stop.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.com