tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post3228812266637732703..comments2024-01-25T04:25:43.196-08:00Comments on Roz in his hands: Punishment and Reinforcing RolesRozhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comBlogger62125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-44068199553008416502013-06-04T01:15:28.479-07:002013-06-04T01:15:28.479-07:00Thank you Terps,
Yes, we are definitely feeling m...Thank you Terps,<br /><br />Yes, we are definitely feeling more connected and more in tune with our roles. It was difficult but it is so worth it for the benefits.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-3456809950843840532013-06-04T01:13:51.153-07:002013-06-04T01:13:51.153-07:00Hi Ana,
Um, well, as far as rules and the collar ...Hi Ana,<br /><br />Um, well, as far as rules and the collar go. I've been a perfect angel since :) However, I have had my moments having difficulty stuffing the control monster! It usually coincides with my OCD - when I decide something really needs to be cleaned, sorted, mowed, weeded etc LoL<br /><br />It was a wonderful night of connection.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-19108212953957893412013-06-03T19:16:47.809-07:002013-06-03T19:16:47.809-07:00While difficult the punishment must have been, I a...While difficult the punishment must have been, I am glad you are feeling more connected. HugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-310691009295805882013-05-31T13:45:54.443-07:002013-05-31T13:45:54.443-07:00Ah, Roz, you must be feeling absolutely angelic no...Ah, Roz, you must be feeling absolutely angelic now! :D Such a nice description, and what a wonderful night for you. Anastasia Vitskyhttp://www.governingana.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-71060276030276068292013-05-31T03:52:25.877-07:002013-05-31T03:52:25.877-07:00Thank you Irishey,
We are in a good place after t...Thank you Irishey,<br /><br />We are in a good place after this. it reconnected us and reinforced our roles. As you say, the trick is staying there :) I sometimes wonder why it is that we can't always seem to stay in that place. I guess most of it is life getting in the way.<br /><br />I agree with you regarding the rules. I have no idea why we let them slip sometimes. Perhaps sometimes we are doing it to test him? I really wish I had the answer. My butt sure would love me for it if I did LoL<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-51367903874952748442013-05-31T03:46:10.972-07:002013-05-31T03:46:10.972-07:00Hi Kenzie,
Thank you for reading and for your com...Hi Kenzie,<br /><br />Thank you for reading and for your comment. Welcome!<br /><br />Oh yes, reciting the lines in front of him was awful, very humbling. It wasn't easy, but it was ultimately worth it to reconnect us and reaffirm our roles.<br /><br />I am always amazed at how he can blister my butt, yet be so loving at the same time. Pulling me close to him, holding my hand and telling me he has me. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-83575820010917782272013-05-31T03:41:48.870-07:002013-05-31T03:41:48.870-07:00Thank you Lillie :)
Exactly! As I said above, the...Thank you Lillie :)<br /><br />Exactly! As I said above, the fact that he holds me accountable and is willing to bring me back to where both of us want me to be shows that it matters to him, and makes me feel so cared for. It's a lovely feeling :) <br /><br />It wasn't easy but it reconnected us and reaffirmed our roles.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz<br /><br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-57658848207338803952013-05-31T03:37:55.121-07:002013-05-31T03:37:55.121-07:00Hi June,
It's so hard when we feel we have wr...Hi June,<br /><br />It's so hard when we feel we have wronged or disappointed isn't it? He gives me his forgiveness but it often takes me longer to forgive myself. The fact that he does hold me accountable makes me feel taken care of and lets me know that it matters to him ... that I matter. <br /><br />It is soo much better when it is over and we are reconnected and in his arms.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-37197990917766034702013-05-31T03:19:08.133-07:002013-05-31T03:19:08.133-07:00Thank you Kiwi, we are back on track :)
Hugs,
Roz...Thank you Kiwi, we are back on track :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-78445922956074418542013-05-31T03:12:00.312-07:002013-05-31T03:12:00.312-07:00Hi Lily,
Reciting the lines in front of him was a...Hi Lily,<br /><br />Reciting the lines in front of him was awful, especially while being spanked! It certainly did reconnect us and get us back on track. So worth it in the end.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-27617981211451456472013-05-31T03:09:24.596-07:002013-05-31T03:09:24.596-07:00Hi Riley,
It wasn't easy, that's for sure...Hi Riley,<br /><br />It wasn't easy, that's for sure, but the end result was great. We ended up connected and with rules and roles reinforced.<br /><br />LoL, they can be full of surprises can't they? Rick applied the arnica the spanked again later on as well. Normally there are pretty clear signals that the spanking is over, but he surprised me this time putting me back over his lap. I thought uh-oh, here we go again, but then he reached for the arnica instead of the implements LoL<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-17114610884455438612013-05-31T01:03:14.413-07:002013-05-31T01:03:14.413-07:00Hi Grace,
Thank you :)
Writing lines truly is aw...Hi Grace,<br /><br />Thank you :)<br /><br />Writing lines truly is awful and reciting them while being spanked was waay worse! It was very humbling.<br /><br />It was so worth it in the end though. It reconnected us and reaffirmed our roles. We are in a good place.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-29403547534234357542013-05-31T01:00:21.851-07:002013-05-31T01:00:21.851-07:00Thank you Tiffany :)
Things are definitely back o...Thank you Tiffany :)<br /><br />Things are definitely back on track now. It certainly reconnected us and reaffirmed the rules and our roles. We're in a good place.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-31079399881359434582013-05-31T00:58:17.799-07:002013-05-31T00:58:17.799-07:00Hi Mischief,
Thank you :) It certainly wasn'...Hi Mischief,<br /><br />Thank you :) It certainly wasn't easy, but it did reconnect us and reinforce our roles and we are in a great place now. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-28306131055194097752013-05-31T00:55:44.049-07:002013-05-31T00:55:44.049-07:00Hi Blondie,
LoL, I know what you mean. It does f...Hi Blondie,<br /><br />LoL, I know what you mean. It does feel odd to congratulate each other when we are spanked ... but I guess we do congratulate because we know it works for us.<br /><br />It certainly did reinforce the rules and our roles and brought us much closer together. I just love the collar. It is a lovely to have a symbol of us, and of our roles and it reminds me of him when we are apart. There is also something about having something that everybody else can see, but have no idea of it's significance to us.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-79698335413855024582013-05-31T00:51:42.192-07:002013-05-31T00:51:42.192-07:00Hi Julia,
Thank you :) it wasn't easy but it ...Hi Julia,<br /><br />Thank you :) it wasn't easy but it did reconnect us so was so worth while in the end. I totally agree. By holding me accountable it lets me know that the issue is important to him and that I am important to him. It lets me know that he cares.<br /><br />I know the collar hold significant value and meaning to both of us, but I guess I didn't realise just how much it means to him. That makes me feel even more loved and cared for :)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-1445141945005655942013-05-31T00:48:03.596-07:002013-05-31T00:48:03.596-07:00Hi Bob,
Thank you :) I think as difficult as it ...Hi Bob,<br /><br />Thank you :) I think as difficult as it may be, it is important to follow his lead at times when we really don't want to, and certainly when it comes to punishment, I always do. After all, I want him to 'step up' and remain consistent. It's also about being held accountable.<br /><br />Much as I don't want to admit it, it was what we both needed and it also reconnected us.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-72128099530857930382013-05-31T00:45:04.843-07:002013-05-31T00:45:04.843-07:00Hi Missy,
Thank you :) It wasn't easy but, m...Hi Missy,<br /><br />Thank you :) It wasn't easy but, much as I don't want to admit it, it was what we both needed and it reconnected us and reinforced our roles.<br /><br />Reciting the lines while being spanked was awful! He also has a habit of questioning me during a spanking. Don't they realise how difficult it is to talk and form cohesive sentences while being spanked? Lol<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-24424455469215606472013-05-31T00:42:16.631-07:002013-05-31T00:42:16.631-07:00Hi Marie,
Thank you so much:) The reconnection an...Hi Marie,<br /><br />Thank you so much:) The reconnection and re-establishing our roles was wonderful. <br /><br />I generally hate having to be naked, that is also the case for role affirmation as well. it does make me feel so vulnerable, which is why he insists on it. You are right, he insists on it so I comply, even though I don't really want to. It all part of submitting to his authority.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Roz<br />Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-58856734717611808542013-05-31T00:38:16.457-07:002013-05-31T00:38:16.457-07:00Thanks Cat :)
I hope so too! I'm pretty sure...Thanks Cat :)<br /><br />I hope so too! I'm pretty sure the collar won't be an issue going forward. It really hold such deep meaning for both of us and I love wearing it, it reminds me of him and of our roles. It was only the specific circumstance that made me forget.<br /><br />The bedtime rule though ... that is always a struggle for me - sigh.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-86434363695196499322013-05-30T23:58:51.344-07:002013-05-30T23:58:51.344-07:00Thanks Renee :)
It wasn't easy, but it did re...Thanks Renee :)<br /><br />It wasn't easy, but it did reconnect us and reinforce our roles. Yes, he surprised me by applying the arnica, he doesn't usually do that.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-32705338589854431352013-05-30T23:57:37.620-07:002013-05-30T23:57:37.620-07:00Hi Zoe,
You are so right .. being held accountabl...Hi Zoe,<br /><br />You are so right .. being held accountable lets me know the issue matters to him ... I matter to him, even if it means being OTK. There is nothing like having that reassurance. I think it's why we tend to fall apart with inconsistency.<br /><br />I am glad it's over too! LoL. It wasn't easy, but was so worth it as it reconnected us and re-established us in our roles.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-38824687206398680202013-05-30T23:53:38.245-07:002013-05-30T23:53:38.245-07:00Hi Mona Lisa,
I'm sorry you found it hard to ...Hi Mona Lisa,<br /><br />I'm sorry you found it hard to read. As I said above, it does quite often sound 'worse' in writing than in reality.<br /><br />It wasn't easy, but in the end it was so worth it as it reconnected us and re-established us in our roles.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-11066524993885309882013-05-30T23:50:58.910-07:002013-05-30T23:50:58.910-07:00HI Sarah,
You are so right. This lifestyle isn&#...HI Sarah,<br /><br />You are so right. This lifestyle isn't always easy, but the difficult times often result in great closeness and growth. Without them I don't think the benefits would be as good.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5659327111085869724.post-3955059417730946942013-05-30T23:42:12.926-07:002013-05-30T23:42:12.926-07:00Hi Willie,
Awe thank you :)
No, it wasn't e...Hi Willie, <br /><br />Awe thank you :)<br /><br />No, it wasn't easy, but it was so worth while in the end. It certainly did bring us closer together and more connected with our roles. <br /><br />As for staying that way ... well, the control monster did rear it's ugly head just a bit today - sigh. Thankfully, I think I have it back under control ... and without any help!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com