Sunday 16 March 2014

Some More Answers

OK, now I have (almost) stopped blushing after my last post I thought it was time to answer some more of your questions.  I'm sorry it is taking me a while to get to all of the wonderful questions we have been asked and I hope you will bear with me.


Ronnie asked,
If you could throw away one implement, what would it be?
One of our implements is a short plastic pole which is actually off the end of a cat toy lol.  It hurts like the dickens and I imagine it would be very similar to a window blind tilt wand.  I would be more than happy if I never saw it again!

Who would you want to play the role of you in a movie?
Oh gosh.  I really don't know.  I have no real idea why really but I'm thinking Naomi Watts or Gwyneth Paltrow.

Rick and I both love the Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan combination in romantic movies such as Sleepless In Seattle and You got Mail though.  So perhaps Meg :)



Quiet Sara asked,
what is your favorite act of submission for Rick?
I would have to say sitting at his feet at night while watching TV, listening to music etc while he rubs my back, plays with my hair while giving it the occasional tug (love that!).  Kneeling in front of him while we talk or while he lectures me.  I also love to serve him by doing little things for him like fixing his drink etc.

I guess that was more than one thing.  See, I sometimes have trouble following instructions :) 

Kenzie asked,
What was your most memorable spanking?
There have been a number of spankings that have been memorable for different reasons and they have been different type of spankings also. Punishment, R/A, and even some 'play' spankings. 

There are two that stick out for me.  (Again, not following instructions :)  I posted about these at the time because they were significant to me and I think milestones for us.  They both happen to be punishment spankings. 

The first is one occasion I visited my parents on my own.  To drive to my parents place involves having to travel a notorious stretch of road. It is also a rule that when I go out I am to text when leaving and when I return home if Rick is not home when I leave/return so that he knows I am safe.

On this occasion I failed to contact Rick when I got home.  To this day I can't explain why.  It didn't help that the weather was somewhat inclement and it was evening.  Rick was also away that night so would not know when I returned home, which made letting him know even more important to him.  Having not heard from me he phoned after a while.  I remember being so shocked at both the panic and relief in his voice.  

The spanking which followed a few days later was the hardest I had received up to that point and it was also the first time he used a belt.  It wasn't just the spanking itself though.  The lecture he gave me was awful. He was extremely serious and I was crushed to realise how much I had worried him.  This was the moment I truly discovered just how protective he had become.

I wear a vanilla collar (necklace).  I am to wear it at all times, except when I go to bed and in the shower, unless I have permission not to wear it for any reason.  It is a symbol of, and reminder of our relationship and our dynamic and holds huge emotional value to both of us.  I love wearing it. It reminds me that I am his and he loves to see me wear it.  I also love the fact that it can be seen by others, but  only we know what it represents.

I forgot to put it on one morning in my rush.  Yep, you guessed it. Spanking number two!  Let me just say I have NEVER forgotten again since!  It was another serious spanking and I discovered just how important the collar and what it represents is to him.

The above spankings were memorable because they were issues Rick felt very strongly about and that was when I realised just how seriously he took them. I was blown away. They were emotional and I think the lectures and the strong feeling of connection and intimacy during and after these punishments were perhaps more memorable than the spankings themselves.  

Given the reasons for these spankings.  They were a realisation for me and reinforced how much Rick loves and cares for me and his desire to protect me.  While not pleasant at the time they each left me feeling totally loved and cared for. 

George asked,
Have yall ever visited a clothing optional beach, and if not would you want to? 
Funnily enough, one of the beaches we visit during summer is a 'clothing optional' beach.  However, it is a rather large beach and those who choose optional clothing tend to contain to a particular area ... which is well away from us lol.  

It isn't something that appeals to either of us.

28 comments:

  1. Great answers...one of my more memorable spankings was when i did not call after driving home from a visit to the grands....
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks Abby, safety is such a big issue isn't it? I was amazed when I first realised just how seriously he takes my safety and well being. He always has taken it seriously, but ttwd has made him even more protective.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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      Roz

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  2. So I'm soooo behind but had to go back and read this 'blushing' post ;) eiye eiye eiye mama!!! Lol. Great answers.

    hugs
    p

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    1. LoL P, you got me blushing again :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  3. Loved reading this! You are such a good writer and I love that you strayed from the instructions. It meant we got more answers! :)
    Meg, Gwyneth, or Naomi huh? I'd watch your movie :)

    love
    sara

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    1. Hi Sara, thank you so much for the compliment. Most of the time I think I am just rambling :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. great answers to great questions :-) Hugs

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  5. The "blush" looks cute. :) I never follow rules exactly either. That's the fun of things, isn't it. Loved reading the answers.

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    1. Hi Sunny, thank you :) It is fun to bend the rules sometimes, although I've learnt it pays to pick your moment ... and which rule to bend! LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  6. Great replies, Roz!!
    Short plastic pole...hmmm...I can see how unpleasant that implement would be...but gosh, I give points to the creativity in that one!

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    1. Hi Bleuame, thank you :) Yes, that pole is positively evil lol. Ironically though, it was me who suggested it could make a great spanking implement!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. I think I'd want to get rid of the plastic pole:)

    Loved reading your answers. Thanks.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, thank you :) The plastic pole is pure evil. I do believe it's sting is worse than the cane!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. Love the Q&A always nice to know more my friend. Hope you've had a good weekend.

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    1. Hi Angel, thank you, glad you enjoyed it :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  9. I remember those spankings. Okay NOT like I was there, but I remember reading about both of them. I am not sure about others and what they experience, but there is a certain conviction that I really 'feel' from Barney when a spanking surrounds things that are truly dear to his heart. Sounds like you and Rick are similar.

    So not the fake orgasm Meg from when Harry Met Sally? LOL

    love
    willie

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    1. Hi Willie,

      Wow, I'm impressed you remember these! If a spanking surrounds an issue that is really important to Rick, I definitely feel a greater level of conviction from him to really get his point across ... both with the lecture and the spanking itself.

      These spankings have more emotion surrounding them, but also a great level of aftercare.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  10. Great these answers Roz! I love that you wear a collar that has a representation that only the two of you are privy to.

    xo

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    1. Thank you Bonnie, I love wearing the collar, and what it represents. There is definitely something delicious about the fact that it can be seen by the outside world, but only we know what it represents.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  11. Loved your answers Roz...now whenever I think of Rick and you, I will have Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan in my mind. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Aww thank you Cat :) You know, neither of us really enjoy watching Tom or Meg in a romantic film unless it is with each other. they just seem to have great chemistry on screen lol

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  12. Those are some fun question you got! And I love Tom and Meg together in movies. I wonder if they do it again in the future...

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    1. Hi Julia, I had fun answering these and must hurry up and post some more answers!

      As I said to Cat, We don't really enjoy Tom or Meg in romantic films with anyone else. I'd love to see them do another film.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  13. Great questions and great answers...I am beginning to love March! ;)

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    1. Hi Cole, welcome! Thank you for reading and for your comment. I am really enjoying reading everyone's Q&A posts too and enjoying learning a little more about my blog friends.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  14. I couldn't go without clothes in public either. Lol

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. Hi Es May, LoL, Rick sometimes ensures I go without 'some' items of clothing ... but not that anyone would know (if you get my drift :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

      Hugs,
      Roz

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