Friday 3 January 2014

Off To A Spanking Start

Well, this has definitely not been the start to the new year I had hoped for. For a start, so much for summer!  The rain is pouring down as I write with extremely strong gale force winds.  It has been fairly warm though.

New year's eve did not go at all as we had planned.  An external situation occurred and that was the end of the celebrations as we had to deal with that.  Or rather, Rick did.  I am not proud at all to say Scrappy reared her head full force.  Worse, I'm ashamed to say it was a full on tantrum and I also completely distanced myself from Rick.  Even took myself off to the spare bed in my stupor.  Yeah ... ouch! 

Well, he was having none of that let me tell you!  I was quickly dragged back out of the spare bed, marched into our room and bent over our bed. And so dear friends, this is the sad tale of how Roz managed to get spanked very early into the new year!

He was angry.  Very angry.  I knew from the fact he used the belt.  For some reason he doesn't tend to use the belt for discipline or role affirmation spankings.  It mainly tends to get used for fun ... ha!  I want to clarify too that yes, he was angry, but remained totally in control the whole time.  There were no raised voices, angry words or overly harsh spanks.

It doesn't just end there.  Oh no, there is more!  Shortly I will be sitting down to write 200 lines ... and have another spanking over my head for not following bedtime orders (for the umpteenth time!).   Let me tell you, waiting for a spanking truly sucks!

Honestly, I don't know what has gotten into me.  Why my submissiveness has suddenly taken a hike.  Or perhaps I do.  DD for us has been more in the background recently and it's amazing when that happens how old coping mechanisms and habits can literally come back to bite you in the a#$.  All I know is that I need to get my act together.

After the spanking we talked about how things had taken a back seat lately and Rick said he took responsibility and that it was a case of letting life get in the way and that he was going to get us back on track.  I acknowledged that I hadn't been playing my part either.

Well, I guess you could say we are getting back on track!

I am honestly glad he did step up and spank me for my behaviour new years eve.  It really showed me that, even though DD had taken a bit of a back seat lately, and there was a pressing situation demanding his attention he remains committed to us and to this lifestyle.

That makes me happy.

Now, if I can just get my act together!


53 comments:

  1. Hi Roz,

    It's good to know that you are back on track, and that Rick stepped in and took corrective action when you derailed.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi Hermione, thank you :) Not sure I felt so at the time but I am very glad Rick stepped in when he did and didn't allow things to get any worse.

      I'm also very happy he is placing a bigger focus on ttwd :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  2. Hi Roz, while I am sorry that the New Year did not begin quite as hoped, I am glad that you are both getting back on track and that Rick was there for you to lead the way. Hugs, Terps

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    1. Hi Terps, thank you :) It certainly wasn't the start to the year either of us wanted and I'm so glad Rick stepped in, also that he is bringing ttwd more back in focus :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  3. Hi Roz

    I suspect that there are quite a few of us who ended up getting something we hadn't bargained for, but which we deserved, quite early in the New Year! I also ended up getting one of the longest "discussions" we have had to date! LOL!

    Wishing you and Rick a very Happy New Year and sending you lots of hugs

    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, oh dear, sorry you were on the receiving end (so to speak) as well yet at the same time I am comforted to know I am in good company :) Is there something in the air?

      Happy New Year to you and Dan. I hope this year is a wonderful one for you.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. Sorry for your behind, but happy for everything else. This is what I want or what I think I want - not sure which at the moment. But I am happy for you.

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    1. Hi PK, thank you. Me too LoL ... sorry for my butt but happy ttwd is coming back into focus. Seems things are hopefully looking up for you!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  5. I'm glad that Rick stepped up and didn't let you stay in the spare bedroom. 200 lines, yuk :(
    Kim

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    1. Hi Kim, thank you. I'm so glad he stepped up too, it wasn't good for either of us. Totally agree with you on the lines!!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  6. I have tried that sleeping in the guest room thing, Never works! Finish those lines.........
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Meredith, Welcome! and thank you for commenting :) Yes, trying to sleep in the guest room really isn't such a good idea! and yes ... lines are done (thankfully!)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. Hi Roz, :) Sounds like an ouchie way to ring in the new year but all good that Rick has you covered!!! Good on him for reeling you in to him with love! That is a very promising start to 2014!! :). Many hugs and Happy New Year!

    <3 Katie

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    1. Hi Katie, it was on ouchie start to the year, and not at all what I expected! LoL. I am glad Rick stepped up though and yes, a promising start to 2014! I'm glad he is brining ttwd back into focus :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. The start of a new year is a great time to be reminded of what is expected! I am so glad i do not have to do lines....at least a spanking is over with more quickly. Between the snow and cold and flu..i am still waiting for my first spanking of the new year.
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby, I definitely got my first spanking for the year much sooner than I expected! LoL. I hope you are feeling better.

      I agree, it is a good time to reminded. TTWD for us had been taking for a back seat recently an I am so glad things are getting back on track.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  9. Of everything you said, what I don't understand is that belt for fun. In my humble opinion, a belt is never ever fun. Not ever. No social redeeming value to a belt!!!

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  10. That being said, I get very turned on when I get punished and the HoH is angry. None of this, don't spank when you're angry stuff for me, the waiting sucks and the absolution after the spanking is much better for me. Fortunately for the past year I was living with a guy who felt likewise and ok embarrassed to admit it, but when he yelled " get in the bedroom" and was pissed, there was something soooo hot abt it.

    And the sex afterwards was always incredible. I am still very sad that Don retired and had to move to Florida to be with his sick mom. I have three years till retirement. But I have some very hot memories.

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    1. Hi Jackie, welcome and thank you for commenting :)

      LoL re the belt. I think it's more 'fun' for him than it is for me! Although, the thought of it is a turn on, because it is personal to him and if it's used lightly :)

      Angry spankings are rare here, and even when he is angry there are no raised voices or overly harsh spanks, although yes, I can see that being hot :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  11. Roz! Girl what are you thinking!? I'm glad that you two have talked and he recognized how much you need him to take the lead in a more obvious way. (We women tend to ignore subtleties) Also happy that he didn't let you get away with your attitude. It wouldn't have done either of you any favors. Here's hoping you can get back on track and stay out of trouble.

    hugs
    p

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    1. Hi P, I know! Definitely not a proud moment or smart for one living in a ttwd relationship!

      I'm honestly glad he stepped up too and that we are starting the year with a greater focus on ttwd.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  12. Hi Roz - Happy New Year! I'm sorry you got into trouble so soon in 2014, but I'm glad you are back on track! Best wishes for a great year! :-D

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    1. Hi DH, and thank you :) Happy New Year to you, Julia and family! I certainly did end up in trouble a lot earlier into the new year than I thought! LoL. I'm am so glad Rick stepped in though and that we are starting the year with a greater focus on ttwd.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  13. Man, woman, what a start to the year, lol! He must have been truly pissed to use the belt when he usually clearly only uses it for more positive ones...
    But happy for you that he didn't let you turn him off,

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    1. Hi Julia, I know right?! Oh yeah, he was pissed. In fact, after a few swats he said "I'm seething right now". However, was calm and controlled throughout.

      I am glad he stepped in, although maybe not so much at the time LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  14. Oh Roz, I'm sorry to hear your New Year's plans were spoiled and the night ended so poorly for you. I'm hoping that the punishment and following spanking and lines are helping you find that submissive side again. Sounds like it's been a bit rough finding the path again but you know you can do this. And Rick is there to help you keep on track.

    Sending hugs your way.
    Clara

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    1. Hi Clara, thank you for your lovely words :) No, it definitely wasn't the New Year's I was expecting, that's for sure! I am glad he stepped in and that we are bringing ttwd back into focus.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  15. OH ROZ, when did you watch a scene from our house and decide to act it out!??? I'm not kidding, I felt so bad for you, but started laughing my head off when you tantrumed, and then went into the guest room. That is what I do! *gulp* I've probably done it four times in the past year. *gulp* :( The Duke has never known what to do about it though, and I laughed so hard at your blog, he MADE me show him... now he knows what to do... thanks Rick... *hmph* lol.

    I am glad that you guys are getting into your roles again, I can already hear the joy in your voice, and I love to hear it there. :) I hope that you both keep exercising your dominant and submissive muscles, and learn to work those well together again. :)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. LoL Es May, this cracked me up!

      Sorry if this gave The Duke ideas. You shouldn't have laughed at me so hard! ... just kidding :) Really though, it is best that they do now how to deal with it huh? Not a good situation for either party.

      I am so glad we are starting the new with a renewed focus on ttwd.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  16. Well *I* for one am shocked ! Oh wait- no I'm not.

    I don't have a spare room to stomp too. This house is crazy with people. I have gone to a couch a couple of times. Oh and fell asleep in our van in our driveway once. You know, typical angel behaviour. What's that? NZ angels don't to that? Pity! As you can see by EsMay's comment Canadian Angels do.

    Welcome back to 'the dark side' Roz. We've been waiting! LOL.

    Seriously, here is hoping this year finds you were you both are happy being.
    love
    willie

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    1. Hi Willie, wait ... you're NOT shocked! .. humph :)

      We're so good at the angel behaviour aren't we? LoL, Oh dear, falling asleep in the van?

      Hopefully I think my halo is back intact ... for the moment anyway :)

      Thank you for the wishes. I wish the same for you and Barney.

      Love
      Roz

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  17. hi roz, same for me to. I got spanked quite severely NY day, got another one coming monday or Tuesday and I've been told to expect another harsh one. So yeah the same boat as you my friend even down to the weather - but no lines -yet. Shall we form a club? Lol the resent kiwi wives club lol

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    1. Hi Kiwi, oh ouch, I'm sorry you found yourself in the same predicament. I hope the second spanking is now over and done with and wasn't as harsh as you thought. Think we may have already started the club! LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  19. Hi Roz, Oh dear what a start to the year. I hope your rear recovers quickly from its unfortunate predicament. And lines too. I have never done them and never hope too. I suppose at least it is a good thing that Rick stepped up to the plate at the beginning of the year and didn't let things slide till February!!
    love Jan.xx

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    1. Hi Jan,

      I hope you never have to do lines. They suck! LoL.

      Wasn't the best start to the year, that's for sure! But I am so glad he stepped up and didn't let the situation get any worse. So glad too that we are starting the year with a greater focus on ttwd. I think my halo is now back on my head ... although slightly tarnished perhaps :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  20. I think you will be successful, after all, the first step is your wanting to do it. I'm thinking you won't be forgetting about the New Year spanking for a while - what a way to start a new year.

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    1. Hi Sunny, thank you! You are so right, wanting to is key. Definitely wasn't the way I thought I was going to start the new year! I and rediscovering my submissiveness and thing have been smooth since :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  21. Oh dear Roz. Seems to me Rick is starting the new year with a firm hand. Not quite the way to begin the year but at least you know things are back on track.
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Hi DF, it definitely wasn't the way to start the new year. That's for sure! I am so glad though that Rick did step up and that we are starting the new year with a renewed focus on ttwd. It's good to be getting back on track :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  22. Roz, so happy to hear Rick has stepped up and you are realizing how much you needed it. Hugs.

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    1. Hi HS, thank you and yes, it definitely was needed! TTWD had been taking a bit of a back seat and I'm so glad he stepped up and that we are starting the year with a renewed focus.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  23. Roz! What were you thinking? LOL. Sorry about your butt and the aching in your fingers. It's what you needed and so glad he was there for you. Hugs Roz!

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    1. Hi Chickie, thank you :)

      I honestly don't know what I was thinking. Emotions just took over. You're right. It was what I needed and I'm glad he stepped up and that things are getting back on track after taking a bit of a back seat for a while.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  24. Oh Roz, how I can relate to this post! I hope that you feel that the two of you are getting back on track now. It's so easy to let things start to slide and it can seem alright for awhile, but then at some point I'm likely to crash and burn...or at least my butt will end up burning!

    Happy New Year!

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    1. Hi Grace, thank you :)

      I saw your post. It is easy to let things start to slide isn't it? and always ends with us crashing and burning ... or our butts burning LoL

      I'm so glad Rick stepped up. We are definitely getting back on track and starting the year with a greater focus.

      Happy New Year to you too!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  25. Sorry you didnt have the time you wanted together on New Years but glad to hear you are getting back on track my friend. Hugs

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    1. Hi Angel, thank you :) It definitely wasn't the new years I anticipated! We are definitely getting back on track and starting the year with a greater focus on our roles.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  26. Roz,

    It actually sounds like, despite all the drama, a reconnecton happened and that is not a bad way to start a new year.
    Sometimes, we need to tread at the very end of that leash, to be reminded of what happens when we teeter off.

    Good to read your words, my friend.

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    1. Hi Bleuame, thank you :) Why is it we seem to have to dip out toe over the line from time to time? Argh!

      It was an awful situation and I'm glad Rick stepped up because it did result in us reconnecting. I'm glad we are starting the new year with a greater focus on our roles.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  27. See now darn it, I missed this post too! Ugh I am so annoyed! I totally would have commented and said sorry you got spanked but glad you got spanked too :) Glad everything worked out. Sounds like Rick did a good job.

    love
    sara

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  28. Hi Sara, thank you ... never too late :) I certainly wasn't too happy about it at the time but I was so glad Rick stepped up afterwards.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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