Monday, 22 April 2013

Butts On My Mind

I have a couple of serious posts rattling around in my head and I'm waiting for them to find their way out of my head and through my keyboard onto the computer screen.

In the meantime; as we all know, domestic discipline and ttwd isn't always serious.  There is also a fun side to ttwd and I enjoy this side.  The teasing, banter and innuendo.  We had one of those moments today that I thought I would share.

Have you started 'noticing' bottoms more since starting ttwd?  I know I have. Funnily enough, I now notice guys biceps and the size of their hands more too.  Go figure?

Well, this was obviously on my mind today.  (The next part to this story isn't really very nice.  I'll be honest and hope you don't think any less of me/us).

Rick and I were having a conversation outside this afternoon when we noticed a woman come out of a building and walk to a nearby parked car.  Lets just say, she was very well endowed in the booty department.

We instantly exchanged a 'look' (I know - terrible of us!).

I then commented to Rick something along the lines of how some people 'keep all their weight in their booty' meaning it seems to be the only 'weighty' part of them.  (Again, shocking on my part - I know!)

The rest of the conversation went along the lines of the following:

Well, you've got a really tiny butt.  Nothing to worry about

Yeah I know, there's nothing of it - it's what's out front of it I'm worried about!

You're NOT going to start with the weight thing again are you?

Sheepish smile and I went on the explain what I didn't like about my butt

What - you want butt implants?

Thinking about it for like two seconds ... hmm ... could be handy

YES - how about steel ones!


Earlier on in the day I had commented to Rick that I like how he goes to sleep at night with one hand on my bottom.  He replied that it just feels so comfortable and right.  BTW, is it just me or is this a common tend among HoH's?

Yep, must have been on my mind today!

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  1. Oh, the hand on the bottom. So mine too! I have to slip out from underneath it once he's asleep.
    Butts spread with age, I'm assuming mine will grow of it's own accord. The rest of me has...
    hugs
    DF

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    1. Hi DF,

      It certainly seems to be very common. I love it! Grrr ... something for us to look forward to then LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  2. Hi Roz! You are my comment of the day. Buns of steel indeed. I'd be happy to have less of a bottom.

    MM usually puts his hand on my back/hip while falling asleep and he never used to do that. I love it.

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    1. Hi Susie,

      I am honoured to be you comment of the day :)

      I'm not so sure about a smaller bottom. I've found Rick can just about cover the whole cheek each swat!

      I love having his arm around me and his hand on my butt while going to sleep.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  3. Well here I am supposed to be taking a shower.....but what can I say?? The title of your post piqued my interest! ha! Ah, Roz...buns of steel look like they may NOT be a good idea. Ryan and I go to sleep in a mousetrap type configuration since starting ttwd. Usually he has his arm draped over me and his leg.....I have no idea where he thinks I am going to run off to in the middle of the night ;)

    Hugs....

    ~Lucy

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    1. Hey Lucy,

      LoL, so the title tweaked your interest eh? Seems I have a captive audience LoL.

      In hindsight my buns of steel idea may not have been so great after all. Es May has the right idea though.

      Speaking of captive, it sounds as though that's how Ryan wants you at night LoL. I do love being snuggled up and wrapped up in his arms. Usually one draped over me and the other hand on my butt LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  4. Well. *ahem* Butts are sexy. So...

    *grins*

    Glad you sound cheerful today. Butts on your mind, indeed. Hehe.

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    1. Hi Ana,

      Oh yes, butts are sexy. Glad you got a giggle out of it :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  5. Oh you are SOOOOOOOOO not talking about your weight!!!! You should need buns of steel if you keep up that nonsense!

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    1. Hey Willie,

      Sheesh! I should have known you would say that! LoL. You did say you would back Rick up with the weight thing ... not that he needs any help!

      I know you are both right though *cough, choke*

      Love ya
      Hugs
      Roz

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  6. I've always noticed (and commented) female butts.
    These days I find rounder butts to be more sexy, there's more to touch I think...
    What I find totally shocking is my new interest in men hands!!!
    How very fascinating...
    Hug

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    1. Hi Viola,

      LoL, isn't it amazing how things take on a different meaning and the things we notice that we never used to?

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  7. Butts are sexy. I'm always notice men's butts so why wouldn't met notice women's. Hubby always goes to sleep that way too.

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    1. Hey Sunny,

      Butts are sexy, and you are so right. It would seem it is very common ... I love going to sleep that way.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  8. When we go to sleep together...schedules allowing...We spoon and his heavy arm is around me. Nice.
    I certainly want my butt to look like buns of steel....however...I have work to do...lol.
    I notice hands and arms...ahem...plus I often wonder about buts I see. something along these lines runs through my mind...'I wonder if they are spanked?'

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    1. Hey Minelle,

      It is such a nice feeling isn't it? I love it. Yeah, the exact same thought often goes through my mind too ... I wonder if? ...

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  9. I'm the same as SG, I always s notice a man's bottom:)

    Did you know Michael Bublé always puts his hand on his wife's bottom when he gets into bed. Wonder if he's into spanking.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hey Ronnie,

      Ooh no, I didn't know that (nice snipped of info!) hmm ... does make you wonder. Should we take bets? Only thing is, I don't know that we would be able to settle the bet LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  10. It's funny because Tm was doing this just last night. He moves around a lot though so it comes and goes lol.

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    1. Hi Mischief,

      Isn't it funny how common it is. It comes and goes here too. It's like his hand slips off and that disturbs him and he settles back again with his hand back on my butt, until he shifts again LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  11. Oh I live butts lol, it's the first part of a man I look at lol of course only if they're back is to me, I don't physically turn them round to see lol

    Well you got me thinking there, I wanted buns of steel, but it really does look like a bad idea ;)

    This was a funny post Roz and nothing offensive about it :)

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    1. Hey Missy,

      Well, I would hope you wouldn't physically turn then around to look at their butt LoL

      Hmm, isn't hindsight a wonderful thing. I don't think the buns of steel was such a great idea after all. I think Es May below has the right idea though!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  12. I notice butts and hands. Butts more so , I think. Yeah to possessing you even in sleep.
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby,

      Nothing says dominance more the possessing you, even in sleep! I love it. Yeah, I think I notice butts more too.

      I hope you are recovering well. Look after yourself and take things easy.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  13. Roz, even though we are very new in terms of spanking, my husband has his hand on my bottom too.
    And I love it.

    I have always had the weakness to men's hands. Long fingers ..

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    1. Hi Mona Lisa,

      It sure seems to be a common trait. I love it too, I smile and snuggle in closer when I feel his hand resting on my butt.

      Hair, eyes and hands are the things I've always noticed, but I seem to notice hands much more now LoL

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  14. there are lots worse things you could have on your mind other than bottoms :-) My hubby spoons me to sleep with his arm resting on my hip or wrapped around me... :-) Hugs

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    1. Hey Terps,

      I guess there are worse things I could have on my mind. It's such a lovely feeling isn't being wrapped up in his arms :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  15. Hey Roz - so I'm the newbie on the block & I'm totally chuckling from your blog today! It's only been 2 days since I approached my husband about bringing spanking into our relationship, and with 3 teenagers at home we really haven't even had a chance yet for a spanking, but already he can't seem to keep his hands off my rear (which I love!)

    And it's funny how more aware of certain things you become once you are in this mindset. So as I've been looking into and learning about all this stuff, I found myself responding to certain things in a whole new way. For example, as I was playing a hidden objects game on my computer while hanging out in the livingroom with my kids, I got butterflies everytime I had to find a hairbrush or a belt or anything of that nature - it's all different now ;)

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    1. Hi Daydreamer, welcome! thank you so much for reading and for commenting. Wow, 2 days and he can't keep his hands off your rear! That sounds promising :)

      It is funny how things suddenly take on a different meaning and the different things we notice since starting ttwd.

      Wishing you all the best in your journey. Please feel free to email me anytime.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  16. LOL Roz! Cute conversation. :). Yep Rob spoons me when he comes to bed, left arm around me and right rests on my bottom! I really do love it. Well most of the time. An unclothed rear is an easy spank target which he does not hesitate to make use of on many an occasion! LOL!
    Hugs!

    <3 Katie

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    1. Hi Katie,

      I guess it's fortunate they seem to enjoy rubbing and just 'resting' their hand on our butt and not just spanking it!

      I'm so glad to see you now have a blog. Yay ... welcome to blogging!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  17. Alex definitely rubs my butt way more that he did and it is one of my favorite things right before we go to sleep. Such a nice change. I think maybe from your response it is an HoH trait.

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    1. Hi Zoe,

      It definitely seems to be an HoH thing. I love it too and agree, it does make a nice change :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  18. I do, in fact, and I poke Daddy -
    nice butt
    mmmhmmm
    rounder than mine
    yours is fine
    I want a rounder butt
    I like your butt and it's mine
    well it is yours, but it's not as nice as that
    *eye of scrutiny - surruptuous swat*
    ouch!

    Daddy sleeps with his hand on my butt, it's one of my favorite things in the world :)

    (((hugs)))

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    1. Hi June,

      Ha ha, don't you just love those fun moments and conversations! It must be an HoH thing and I agree, it's a wonderful feeling snuggled up with his hand on your butt :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  19. Your conversation was funny Roz.

    Daddy always sleeps holding me in some way but he switches it up between my butt, chest or throat, no matter what he picks it feels good.

    You know it seems one never notices anybody but Daddy anymore and she hadn't even realized it until you asked. Very interesting.

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    1. Hi Db,

      Ooh, that sounds lovely! With Rick, it's usually my butt LoL. I think it's sweet you don't notice anyone but you Daddy :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  20. I love this post :) I have definitely noticed that there is more attention on both of me and my husband's butts nowadays lol...It's on my mind much more, and I can't help myself but to be playful and "spank" him sometimes when I'm walking by haha.
    -Marie

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    1. Hi Marie,

      LoL, I do it too. Isn't it strange how much more focussed we become?

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  21. Roz you made me laugh. :) thank you. It's been a long day over here.

    M.

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    1. You're welcome Maryanne, glad I could give you a laugh.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  22. ROFL Buns of Steel indeed...you are definitely going to need them if you start fussing about your weight! ;) Thanks for sharing the great cartoon...really gave me a good giggle. LOL

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Hey cat,

      Lovely to hear from you, I missed you :) ... but ... are you telling me off too! - sheesh! That cartoon cracked me up when I saw it. I just knew it would be perfect for this :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  23. Oh this post made me sad - I miss the pre night shift nights when he slept with his hand on me now I have the kitten sleeps with me. Those find conversations are always good and I love the secret looks and codes between each other x

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    1. Awe Kiwi, I'm sorry I made you sad :( It must be hard not getting to snuggle to sleep on work nights with your man. Bet the kitten must be lovely to snuggle though.

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  24. I don't think you're cruel. :) I don't think I'd want buns of steel, you'd sink every sime you swim, they would be heavy to carry around and so your butt would quickly sag, and every time you walk by the fridge, the magnets would fly off and attach to your bottom! ;) What we need is inflated air cushions so that we don't feel the spankings through all the "protection" ;)

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    1. Oh Es May, your comment cracked me up. Guess you've got a point about the magnets LoL. You make a very good point. I think I like your idea of inflated air cushions much better!

      Hugs,
      Roz

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    1. He he, thanks Tiffany :)

      Hugs,
      Roz

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  26. Love this picture! Sorry to be so late commenting!

    Hugs

    Ami

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  27. Sorry Ami, just saw your comment! Never too late :) ... but now I am late in replying! LoL

    Hugs,
    Roz

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