Wednesday 19 December 2012

Spank Free Christmas


Things have been going well for us since my last post.  Except, that is, for the last couple of days.  The last couple of days have seen the return of both Scrappy and the Grinch.  I think it's the stress of last minute Christmas prep, trying to arrange to see everyone we usually see pre Christmas and trying to wind everything up at work.  Such a stressful time of year - argh!

Today was a particularly bad day.  I have been 'off' all day.  Snappy and just plain *itchy with my husband - not good!  At one point he looked at me and said

you look like you need a spanking

then later

you need a spanking

and

today has not been good for you

I see a spanking in my very near future - sigh!

That brings me nicely to my next point.  I think we should declare a moratorium on any spanking (a hall pass if you like) on Christmas day. Heck, lets make it Christmas Day and Boxing Day.  You know, in recognition of our valiant efforts to do our part within our ttwd relationships.  Of course, we don't always succeed (see above lol) but we try.


Perhaps you, my dear bloggy friends would like to join me in a spank free Christmas post to spread the word so that hopefully our men will get the message.

Of course, if you would like a Christmas spanking, be my guest :)

Personally, I think any HoH who spanked his wife Christmas Day would be in the running for the meanest HoH in all of blogland award Lol.  It can't hurt to discourage them from such meanness though can it?

What, or should I say, who gave me this idea?  Ironically, it was actually my husband.  He mentioned the other day that given we are New Zealand and our time zone, I could be the first Dd wife to receive a spanking in 2013!  Can you believe him - the nerve!

Guess it could be a race between me and Kiwi (and any other Dd wives in NZ) for that honour! Lol

I think that would be one race I don't mind losing!

32 comments:

  1. Maybe some of your bloggy friends might think a Christmas spanking is a special way to celebrate the holiday.

    Will be curious to see their comments.

    FD

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    1. Hi FD, welcome!. Thank you for reading and for your comment.

      Hmm, it does seem as though a number of my bloggy friends do indeed want a Christmas spanking ... and I thought I was doing a good deed for my fellow submissives Lol

      Wishing you a safe, happy and blessed Christmas with loved ones.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  2. *toes carpet, grins sheepishly,clears throat* ummmm, if I didn't get a spanking on Christmas, I might just cry! We spank daily....please don't throw anything at me now....I won't tell the HoH-types....promise:-P

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    1. Awe June, we can't have you crying on Christmas Day! Ok, I won't brand Ward the meanest HoH in the land for spanking you - but shush, we'll keep it to ourselves!

      Wishing you, Ward and the boys a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  3. I got spanked on Christmas day last year, out of town and everything. I do declare any HoH who thinks about this to be a giant meanie. I suppose though that if they are dealing with scrappy or a grinch, they might be justified.

    Be good Roz!

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    1. Hi Susie, I liked this comment, ... until I got to the last sentence! Just kidding. Thanks for (sorta) agreeing with me :)

      Wow, that doesn't sound like much fun. Just try to make sure you don't have a repeat this year, ok.

      Wishing you and MM a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Hugs
      Roz

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  4. Well I hope for your sake your "Boss" doesn't see it as a necessity this year- not just for your bum, but because that means you are not in your 'cozy nook' on Christmas Day.

    If it does happen, remember that your Boxing Day is actually Christmas Day here in Canada, so all might not be lost. You could have a spank-free Canadian Christmas!

    Much Love
    Willie

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    1. Hi Wilma, I hope so too! Nah, it won't - I'm a perfect little angel now - ahem.

      Good point though .... if it should happen, I'll go for the spank free Canadian Christmas Lol

      Wishing you, Barney and the family a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  5. Yes, we all are giant meanies. Sorry. But what can I say? Someone has to do the job. Sometimes it is just plain necessary.
    Of course we only spank on Christmas day to defend the Christmas spirit against possible attacks from Scrappy and colleagues.
    The first DD wife to be spanked in 2013! What an honour that would be. I understand that this can be an exciting race between you and Kiwi. Can we place bets on the winner?

    Hugs,
    Bas

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    1. Hi Bas, sigh! clearly I need new friends!! - just kidding.

      There will be no attacks from Scrappy and Co, I'll make sure of it! I'll be good.

      Hmm, not sure about being the first spankee for 2013 being an honour. I suppose you can place bets if you wish. Kiwi and I will be betting on each other! Lol um, who would you bet on? Just asking.

      Wishing you, Lisa and the family and safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  6. Dear Lord...may Ryan leave my hiney alone for that one day.....unless it is the good kind....then I *suppose* it would be okay ;)

    Be good Roz...you can do it!

    ~Lucy

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    1. Hi Lucy, amen to that! Lol

      I will, I promise! You be good too - you hear?

      Wishing you, Ryan and family and safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  7. I think everybody should get a No Spanking on Christmas/Boxing Day pass in their stocking. If they want one they can turn it in.
    Best wishes for getting through the next few days relatively stress free.

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    1. Hi Sunny, I couldn't agree more. Of course, if they don't want a no spanking pass, well ...

      Am almost all organised now and managed to get through the last week without as much as the earlier angst.

      Wishing you and yours a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  8. According to Ana's book, Christmas day spankings are necessary. What can I say? *shrug*

    Hugs, Julia

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    1. Hi Julia, Welcome! Thank you for reading and commenting.

      Yes of course, very good point! sigh, oh well guess there goes that idea then Lol

      Wishing you and yours a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  9. For me, I think a Christmas Day spanking is quite necessary (a fun one that is:)) but sadly not always possible.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, hmm, well I guess a fun spanking is ok, but not the other kind! Lol

      Wishing you and yours a safe, happy and blessed Christmas

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  10. Im with ya Roz...I'l let you win the race. Actually in all seriousness, I wont be spanked over christmas - mainly because my parents arrive on Friday for a week, so I will have a spank free week :D yay for me....however on the flip side, whatever I do during that week will be have to be acconted for when they leave (like last year - the very day they left I got a major walloping for causing a huge argument) and of course our maintenance day is usually a sunday - but it been brought forward to tomorrow morning (Friday) before work for me.

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    1. Hi Kiwi, hmm, we will have to keep tabs on who wins (or looses depending on how you see it :) Lol

      I'm certainly hoping for a spank free Christmas, that's for sure!

      Wishing you and your family a safe, happy and blessed Christmas

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  11. I've read a lot of your posts. Love your blog! Wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas. I heard the Charlie Brown Christmas song in the car the other day and your dancing Snoopy came to mind. Hope he returns and Scrappy takes a hike. C

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    1. Hi C, welcome! Thank you very much for reading, and for your lovely comment. I truly appreciate it.

      Dancing Snoopy is great isn't he? So much better than Scrappy, although, he's not really all that grumpy, he just likes to fight injustice. However, a kind friend pointed out to me that is my husband's job, not mine - sigh.

      Wishing you and your family and safe,happy and blessed Christmas too.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  12. Hey Roz - Unfortunately, I have a feeling that no matter how we all vote, the HoH's will do what they feel is best for you (not necessarily your bum). :( Kick Scrappy and the Grinch to the curb my friend.

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat, sigh - you know your're not HELPING the cause don't you? Lol - Nah, I'm just kidding ya. I suspect you are right - dang. I know Rick isn't buying it. Oh well, best make sure I behave :)

      Wishing you and your family and safe, happy and blessed Christmas

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  13. Good luck with that. Merry Christmas.

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    1. Hi TL, welcome! Thank you so much for reading and commenting.

      I may possibly need some luck Lol. Wishing you, Bucko and family a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  14. Just found you Roz - sorry it took me so long. I absolutely agree that Christmas Day and Boxing Day should be spank free. The way my butt feels at the moment it will take it that long to recover anyway. Who are these hooligans who like daily spankings for goodness sake?! I am beginning to be of the opinion that butts need practice like anything else, and you have to lead up slowly. Pity I didn't realise that earlier!

    Wishing you a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year. Hugs, Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, Welcome! Thank you so much for reading and commenting.

      Some else who agrees with me, yay! Sorry about your already sore butt though :( I agree maybe butts do need practice!

      Wishing you and your family and safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  15. To all who wish for a spank free Christmas and boxing day, i offer you my support. May all bad alter-egos and substitute personalities be banished for at least a week!

    To the rest (like me) who have FUN spankings, I wish you lots of private time for a session, at least on one of the days. May you have spanks enough to see you thru the year.

    That out of the way - if i get stressed when BIKSS is around then i get spanked right away if he thinks it's bad enough to even verbalise that he thinks i need one. if he ISnT around, usually i get a text telling me to breathe and envision a spanking that will come surely the next time he drops in. that usually helps too! i say it's all about conditioning.

    (easy for ME to talk right now, i've been spanked two days in a row!! and feeling awesomely well-behaved. except i'm an hour past curfew. goodnight!)

    and merry christmas!

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    1. Hi Fondles, yes, fun Christmas spankings are ok, just not the other kind :)

      You know, the more I read of your blog, the more awesome I think you and BIKSS are. Her certainly seems to know just what you need - and when you need it.

      Ooh, I hope your butt wasn't too toasted for breading curfew! As you probably know, bedtime is something I struggle with. I don't have a curfew as such, but most nights I am told to go to bed. That's ok when he's here of course, but when he isn't, I sometimes struggle.

      Wishing you, BIKS and loved ones a safe, happy and blessed Christmas.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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  16. Hi, Roz. I hope you and your HoH have a wonderful Christmas, Boxing Day and New Year's Day. Anyone who wants spank-free days over the holidays should be gifted that as a measure of appreciation for submitting their hineys for the greater good throughout the rest of the year. ;-)

    May your stockings be filled with light, love, joy and blessings.

    Irishey

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    1. Hi Irishey, Absolutely, I couldn't agree more. Thank you!

      Wishing you and the family a safe, happy and blessed Christmas and hope you have a lovely time with family and friends.

      Love and Hugs
      Roz

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